LESSON 09

Draw Close to God Through Prayer

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Do you ever feel that you need guidance in life? Do you have important questions that you want answered? Do you need comfort or reassurance? Would you like to feel closer to Jehovah? Prayer can help you fill all of those needs. But what is the right way to pray? Does God listen to all prayers? What can you do to make sure that he will hear your prayers? Let us see.

1. To whom should we pray, and what can we pray about?

Jesus taught that we should pray only to our heavenly Father. Jesus himself prayed to Jehovah. He said: “You must pray, then, this way: ‘Our Father in the heavens . . .’” (Matthew 6:9) When we pray to Jehovah, we strengthen our friendship with him.

We can pray about practically any matter. Of course, for God to answer our prayers, they must be in harmony with his will. “No matter what we ask according to [God’s] will, he hears us.” (1 John 5:14) Jesus gave examples of appropriate things to pray for. (Read Matthew 6:9-13.) In addition to praying about our personal concerns, we must not forget to thank God for what he has done for us and ask him to help others.

2. How should we pray?

The Bible encourages us to “pour out [our] hearts before [God].” (Psalm 62:8) So our prayers should be sincere and heartfelt. We can pray aloud or silently and in any respectful body position. We can pray at any time and in any location.

3. How does God answer our prayers?

He does so in a variety of ways. Jehovah has provided his Word, the Bible, where we often find answers to our questions. Reading God’s Word can “[make] the inexperienced one wise.” (Psalm 19:7; read James 1:5.) He can give us peace of mind when we face challenges. And he can move his worshippers to help us when we really need it.

DIG DEEPER

Examine how you can offer heartfelt prayers that are pleasing to God, and find out how prayer can benefit you.

4. God has requirements for prayer

What factors determine if our prayers are acceptable to God or not? Play the VIDEO.

VIDEO: Does God Listen to All Prayers?—Excerpt (2:42)

Jehovah wants us to pray to him. Read Psalm 65:2, and then discuss these questions:

Do you think the “Hearer of prayer” wants you to pray to him? Why, or why not?

We must try to live according to God’s standards if we want him to hear our prayers. Read Micah 3:4 and 1 Peter 3:12, and then discuss this question:

How can we make sure that Jehovah will listen to our prayers?

During a war, both sides may pray for victory. Is it reasonable to expect God to answer these prayers?

5. Our prayers should come from the heart

Some people have been taught to repeat certain prayers word for word. But is that how God wants us to pray to him? Read Matthew 6:7, and then discuss this question:

How can you avoid saying “the same things over and over again” in your prayers?

Each day, you might think of one specific blessing in your life and then thank Jehovah for that blessing. Do this every day for a week, and you will have prayed about seven different topics without repeating yourself.

A boy speaking to his parents. — A good father wants his child to speak to him from the heart. Likewise, Jehovah wants us to pray to him from our heart

6. Prayer is a gift from God

How can prayer give us strength, both in good times and in bad? Play the VIDEO.

VIDEO: Prayer Helps Us to Cope (1:32)

The Bible promises that prayer can help us to find real peace of mind. Read Philippians 4:6, 7, and then discuss these questions:

Although prayer does not always make our problems go away, how does it help?
What are some things you would like to pray about?

Did you know?

The word “amen” means “so be it” or “surely.” Since Bible times, “amen” has been said at the end of prayers.—1 Chronicles 16:36.

7. Make time for prayer

Sometimes we may get so busy that we forget to pray. How important to Jesus was prayer? Read Matthew 14:23 and Mark 1:35, and then discuss these questions: