Atwalilila ukusosa atila: “Enda, tusamwe tuipakishe ukufiko lucelo, tuleanga ku fya kutemwa.” Ubwite te bwa kuyalya fye ica kulya cisuma babili. Cintu alelaya kuipakisha ukulaalana. Ku mulumendo, ubu bwite bwali ubwa kucebusha kabili ubwa kucincimusha! Pa kuti amunashenashe sana, asosa no kuti: “Pantu umulume wandi tali mu ng’anda, aya mu lwendo lwa kutali; asenda akafunda ka silfere mu minwe yakwe, mu bushiku umweshi wakangana akesa ku ng’anda.” (Amapinda 7:18-20) Amweba ukuti etiina, pantu umulume wakwe naya ku makwebo kabili takabwele bwangu. Mwandi alilamuka ku kubepa umulumendo! “Ku bwingi bwa fya lulembulo fyakwe amwalula, ku kutasha muli bubumbimunda kwa milomo yakwe amunasha.” (Amapinda 7:21) Pa kucincintila ubwite bwa kubeleleka, umwaume alingile ukuba no bukose nga Yosefe. (Ukutendeka 39:9, 12) Bushe uyu mwaume ali no bu bukose?

“Umwanakashi umweni” uo imfumu yamwene abeleleke umulumendo pa kumulalika ku ‘kwanga ku fya kutemwa.’ Bushe abacaice abengi, maka maka abakashana, tababelelekwa mu nshila imo ine? Lelo tontonkanya pali ci: Umo nga alekubeleleka ukuti mucite ubulalelale, bushe uko kutemwa kwa cine nelyo lunkumbwa lwa bukaitemwe? Cinshi ico umwaume uwatemwa umwanakashi ukufuma pa mutima engamutunkila ukuti ekonka ifyo akanshiwa ngo Mwina Kristu ne fyo kampingu yakwe ilemweba? Solomone akonkomesha ukuti: “Wileka mutima obe walukile” kuli iyo misango.