Mwe Bafyashi na Mwe Bana: Bikeni Lesa Intanshi!
“Bela Lesa akatiina, baka amafunde yakwe.”—LUKALA MILANDU 12:13.
1. Mwenso nshi uo abafyashi na bana balekabila ukulundulula, kabili cinshi wingabaletela?
UBUSESEMO bumo pa lwa kwa Yesu Kristu bwatile “ukupekwa kwakwe [kwali no kuba] mu katiina ka kuli Yehova.” (Esaya 11:3) Akatiina kakwe kali ukucilisha kucindikisha kwashika no mwenso wa kutiina Lesa, umwenso wa kukanafwaya ukufulwisha Lesa pa mulandu wa kuti alimutemwa. Abana na bafyashi balingile ukulundulula umwenso wa kutiina Lesa uwa musango yo uwapala uwakwete Kristu, uukabaletela ukupekwa nga fintu waletele Yesu. Balekabila ukuleka Lesa ukwisa intanshi mu bumi bwabo ukupitila mu kumfwila amafunde yakwe. Ukulingana na kalemba wa Baibolo umo, “ici e ca buntunse bonse.”—Lukala Milandu 12:13.
2. Lifunde nshi ilyacilishepo ukucindama mu Malango, kabili ni kuli bani maka maka lyapeelwe?
2 Ifunde lyacilishapo kucindama ilya mu Malango, ilya kuti, tulingile ‘ukutemwa Yehova imitima yesu yonse, ne myeo, na maka yonse,’ lyapeelwe maka maka ku bafyashi. Ici calangwa mu mashiwi yakonkelepo aya muli yalya Malango aya kuti: “Mulefundisha abana benu [ifyebo ifi pa lwa kutemwa Yehova] no mukoosha, mulefisosa na pa kwikala mu mayanda yenu na pa kwenda mu nshila, kabili pa kulaala na pa kubuuka.” (Amalango 6:4-7; Marko 12:28-30) Muli ifyo abafyashi bakambishiwe ukuleka Lesa ukwisa intanshi ukupitila mu kumutemwa abene bene no kusambilisha abana babo ukucita cimo cine.
Icishingamo ca Bwina Kristu
3. Ni shani fintu Yesu alangilile ubucindami bwa kusakamana abana?
3 Yesu alangilile ubucindami bwa kusakamana nelyo fye abana abanono. Pa kashita kamo ilyo ubutumikishi bwa kwa Yesu ubwa pe sonde bwalelola ku kupwa, abantu batendeke ukuleta kuli wene utunya twabo. Abasambi baeseshe ukulesha balya bantu, mu kushininkisha batontonkenye ukuti Yesu aali uwapamfiwa nga nshi ica kuti talingile ukupumfyanishiwa. Lelo Yesu alikalipile abasambi bakwe ati: “Lekeni utwana twise kuli ine, mwitulesha.” Yesu ‘alibafukatile,’ muli ifyo ukulangisha mu nshila yambukile nkuntu ubucindami bwa kusakamana abanono.—Luka 18:15-17; Marko 10:13-16.
4. Ni bani bapeelwe ikambisho lya kuti “kalengeni aba nko shonse ukuba abasambi,” kabili cinshi ici cali no kufwaya bene ukucita?
4 Yesu na kabili acilengele ukumfwika ukuti abakonshi bakwe balikwete icishingamo ca kusambilisha na bambi abashali bana babo. Pa numa ya mfwa yakwe no kubuushiwa, Yesu “amoneke ku bacile myanda isano bonse pamo”—ukusanshako na bafyashi bamo. (1 Abena Korinti 15:6) Cilemoneka ukuti ici cacitikile pa lupili lwa mu Galili uko abatumwa 11 na bo balongene. Kulya Yesu acincishe bonse bene ukuti: “E ico kabiyeni, kalengeni aba nko shonse ukuba abasambi, . . . mulebasambilisha ukubaka fyonse ifyo namwebele.” (Mateo 28:16-20) Takuli Umwina Kristu uwingakwata umulandu usuma uwa kusuulila ili kambisho! Kuli bashibo na banyinabo pa kuti balifikilishe cifwaya ukuti balesakamana abana pamo pene no kwakana mu mulimo wa kushimikila pa cintubwingi no kusambilisha.
5. (a) Cinshi cilangisha ukuti nga te bonse abatumwa, ninshi abengi aba bene balyupile na muli fyo napamo balikwete abana? (b) Kufunda nshi uko imitwe ya ndupwa ilingile ukukatamika?
5 Cili icakatama ukumona ukuti nelyo fye batumwa baali no kulinganya ifishingamo fya lupwa no kukakililwako kwa kushimikila pamo pene no kucema umukuni wa kwa Lesa. (Yohane 21:1-3, 15-17; Imilimo 1:8) Ici ni pa mulandu wa kuti nga te bonse, ninshi abengi aba bene balyupile. Muli ifyo umutumwa Paulo alondolwele ukuti: “Bushe tatukwete buntungwa bwa kwenda na ’bakashi ba mu bwananyina, ificita abatumwa banensu, na bamunyina Shikulu, na Kefa?” (1 Abena Korinti 9:5; Mateo 8:14) Abatumwa bamo napamo balikwete fye na bana. Bakalemba ba lyashi lya kale aba mu kubangilila, pamo nga Eusebius, basoso kuti Petro alikwete. Abafyashi bonse aba mu Bena Kristu ba mu kubangilila bakabile ukumfwila uku kufunda kwa mu Malembo ukwa kuti: “Lelo umuntu nga tasunga abantu bakwe, pali bufi aba mu ŋanda yakwe, ninshi nakaana icitetekelo, kabili abo mubi ukucisha uushatetekela.”—1 Timote 5:8.
Icishingamo ca Kubalilapo
6. (a) Kusonsomba nshi uko baeluda ba Bwina Kristu abakwate ndupwa baba na ko? (b) Cishingamo nshi ica kubalilapo ica kwa eluda?
6 Baeluda ba Bwina Kristu abakwata indupwa ilelo baba mu mibele imo ine iyalimo abatumwa. Balingile ukulinganya icishingamo cabo ica kusakamana ukukabila kwa ku mupashi no kwa ku mubili ukwa ndupwa shabo mu kuba no kukakililwako kwabo ukwa kushimikila pa cintubwingi no kucema umukuni wa kwa Lesa. Mibombele nshi iilingile ukwisa intanshi ukucila yonse imbi? Ulupungu lwa kwa Kalinda ulwa October 1, 1964, lwatile: “Ukukakililwako [kwa kwa wishi] kwa kubalilapo kwaba ku lupwa lwakwe, kabili te kuti, mu cishinka, abombe bwino bwino nga talasunga uku kukakililwako.”
7. Ni shani fintu bashibo ba Bwina Kristu baleka Lesa ukwisa intanshi?
7 E co bashibo balingile ukuleka Lesa ukwisa intanshi ukupitila mu kumfwila ikambisho lya ‘kulelela abana babo mu kufunda no kukonkomesha kwa kwa Shikulu.’ (Abena Efese 6:4) Ico cishingamo te kuti cipeelwe ku muntu umbi iyo, nelyo fye nga ca kuti wishi alikwate cishingamo ca kwangalila imibombele imbi mu cilonganino ca Bwina Kristu. Ni shani fintu bashibo ba musango yo bengasakamana ifishingamo fyabo—ukupayanishisha ifilundwa fya lupwa lwabo lwa ku mubili, lwa ku mupashi, na lwa mu nkuntu—kabili pa nshita imo ine, ukutungulula no kwangalila icilonganino?
Ukupayanya Ukutungilila Kukabilwa
8. Ni shani fintu muka eluda engamutungilila?
8 Cili icamonekesha ukuti baeluda bakwata ifishingamo fya lupwa kuti banonkelamo mu kutungilila. Ulupungu lwa kwa Kalinda ulwambwilwe pa muulu lwatile umukashi wa Bwina Kristu kuti atungilila umulume wakwe. Lwasosele ukuti: “Umwanakashi kuti acilengo kuti cibe icawaminako ukufika apo cingapela kuti wene ukupekanye fiputulwa fyakwe fyalekanalekana, no kwafwilisho kupusushako inshita yakwatisho mutengo iyakwe ne ya mwanakashi wine mu kulakwato kutantika kusuma mu ŋanda, ukulakwate fya kulya mu nshita, ukulaba abaiteyanya mu kuya ku kulongana kwa cilonganino mu kwangufyanya. . . . Pe samba lya kutungulula kwa mulume wakwe, umukashi wa Bwina Kristu kuti acite fyafula mu kusambilisha abana mu nshila intu bafwilo kwendelamo mu kusekesha Yehova.” (Amapinda 22:6) Ee, umukashi abumbiilwe ku kuba ‘kaafwa,’ kabili umulume wakwe mu kubamo amano akapokelela ukwaafwa kwakwe. (Ukutendeka 2:18) Ukutungilila kwa mukashi kuti kwamulenga ukusakamana ifishingamo fyakwe ifya mu lupwa na mu cilonganino mu kucilapo kufumamo cimo.
9. Mu cilonganino ca mu Tesalonika ni bani bakoseleshiwe ukwaafwa ifilundwa fya cilonganino fimbi?
9 Nangu cibe fyo, ba muka baeluda ba Bwina Kristu te beka fye abengakana mu mibombele iyo itungilila kangalila uufwile ‘ukucema umukuni wa kwa Lesa’ no kusakamana aba mu ŋanda yakwe. (1 Petro 5:2) Ni bani bambi bengatungilila? Umutumwa Paulo acincishe bamunyina ba mu Tesalonika ukucindika “abalaashikwa pali” bene. Nalyo line, alitwalilile ukulanda kuli aba aba bwananyina bamo bene—ukulungatika maka maka ku bashalaashikwe—Paulo alembele ati: “Tukonkomesha imwe, mwe bamunyinefwe, fundeni abanaŋani, kosheni abatompoke mitima, koselesheni abanaka, tekanyeni kuli bonse.”—1 Abena Tesalonika 5:12-14.
10. Kwambukila nshi ukusuma uko ukwaafwa kwa kutemwa ukwa bamunyina bonse kwingakwata mu cilonganino?
10 Fintu ciwama lintu bamunyina mu cilonganino bakwata ukutemwa uko kubasesha ku kusansamusha abapopomenwa, ukukoselesha abanaka, ukufunda abanaŋani, no kutekanya kuli bonse! Aba bwananyina ba mu Tesalonika, abo pali tapalapita ne nshita ukutula apo bapokelele icine ca mu Baibolo te mulandu no kupita mu bucushi bukalamba, babomfeshe ukufunda kwa kwa Paulo ukwa kucite ci. (Imilimo 17:1-9; 1 Abena Tesalonika 1:6; 2:14; 5:11) Tontonkanya pa lwa fintu ukubombela kwabo pamo kwakwete ukwambukila kusuma ku kukosha no kwikatanya icilonganino conse! Mu musango umo wine, lintu bamunyina ilelo basansamusha, ukukoselesha, no kufunda umo no munankwe, cilangushako umulimo wa bucemi uwa baeluda, abengi aba bene abakwata ne ndupwa sha kusakamana.
11. (a) Mulandu nshi cabelamo ukupelulula ukusondwelelo kuti abanakashi balisanshiwemo mu numbwilo ya kuti ‘bamunyina’? (b) Kwaafwa nshi uko umwanakashi wakosoka uwa Bwina Kristu engapeela ku bakashana ilelo?
11 Bushe abanakashi balisanshiwemo muli ‘bamunyina’ abo umutumwa Paulo alelandako? Ee, balisanshiwemo, apantu abanakashi abengi balibele abasumina. (Imilimo 17:1, 4; 1 Petro 2:17; 5:9) Kwaafwa kwa musango nshi uko abanakashi ba musango yo bengapeela? Mu filonganino mwalimo abakashana abakwete mpika ya ‘kupenampena’ nelyo ababele “abatompoke mitima.” (1 Timote 5:11-13) Abanakashi bamo ilelo bakwata impika shapalako. Cintu fye bengakabila maka maka ni umo uwa kukutika ku mpika shabo nelyo ukubakwatila icililishi. Ilingi line umwanakashi wa Bwina Kristu uwakosoka e wingalinga sana ukupayanya ukwaafwa kwa uyu musango. Ku ca kumwenako, kuti alanshanya impika sha pa lwakwe no mwanakashi munankwe impika isho umwaume wa Bwina Kristu te kuti abombepo bwino. Ukwebekesha umutengo wa kupayanya ukwaafwa kwa uyu musango, Paulo alembele ukuti: “Eba abanakashi bakalamba . . . babe bakasambilisha wa cisuma, ukuti bafunde abakashana ukuba abatemwa abalume babo, abatemwa abana babo, abatekanya, aba musangwela, abekala ku mwabo, abasuma, abanakila abalume babo bene, ukuti icebo ca kwa Lesa ciipontelwa.”—Tito 2:3-5.
12. Kutungulula kwa bani ukwakatama uko bonse mu cilonganino balingile ukukonka?
12 Fintu bankashi baicefya baba ipaalo ku cilonganino lintu mu kubombela pamo batungilila abalume babo na baeluda! (1 Timote 2:11, 12; AbaHebere 13:17) Baeluda abakwata ifishingamo fya lupwa maka maka balamwenamo lintu bonse babombela capamo ku kwaafwana mu mupashi wa kutemwa na lintu bonse baba abanakila ku kutungulula kwa bacemi basontwa.—1 Petro 5:1, 2.
Mwe Bafyashi, Cinshi Mubika Intanshi?
13. Ni shani fintu bashibo abengi bafilwa ukutungulula indupwa shabo?
13 Imyaka imo iyapitapo uwa fyangalo fya kusekesha umo uwalumbuka atile: “Nalimona abaume abakumamo mu kutungulula utwampani utwakwata imyanda ya baume; balishiba ifya kubomba ne mibele iili yonse, ifya kusalapula ne fya kulambula mu fya makwebo. Lelo umulimo wacindamisha batungulula waba lupwa lwabo kabili balafilwa ukutungulula.” Nga cinshi? Bushe te pa mulandu wa kuti babika ifya makwebo na mabuseko yambi pa ntanshi no kusuula ukufunda kwa kwa Lesa? Icebo cakwe cisoso kuti: “Ifyebo ifi, ifyo ndemweba . . . mulefundisha abana benu.” Kabili ici cali no kucitwa cila bushiku. Abafyashi balekabila ukupeela inshita yabo muli bukapekape—na kucilisha ukutemwa kwabo no kwangwako kwashika.—Amalango 6:6-9.
14. (a) Ni mu nshila nshi abafyashi balingile ukusakamaninamo abana babo? (b) Cinshi ico ukukansha abana kusuma kusanshamo?
14 Baibolo itucinkulako ukuti abana baba cikwatwa cafuma kuli Yehova. (Ilumbo 127:3) Bushe mulasakamana abana benu nge cipe ca kwa Lesa, ica bupe ico aseekesha kuli imwe? Umwana wenu mu kupalishako ali no kwankulako nga ca kuti mwamufukatila, na muli ifyo ukulangisha ukwangwako kwenu ukwa kutemwa no kusakamana. (Marko 10:16) Lelo ‘ukukanshisho mwaice umo afwile ukubela’ cifwaya ifintu ifingi ukucila pa kumukumbatila fye no kumufyompa. Pa kumupangasha na mano nga engasengauka ifimfokonshi fya mu bumi, umwana akabila no kusalapula kwa kutemwa. Umufyashi alangisha ukutemwa kwa cine cine ukupitila mu ‘kubangililo kufunda umwana wakwe.’—Amapinda 13:1, 24; 22:6.
15. Cinshi cilangilila ukuti ukusalapula kwa bufyashi kulakabilwa?
15 Ukukabila kwa kufunda kwa bufyashi kuti kwamonwa mu fyo iciŋombe ca pa sukulu calondolwele pa bana abesa kwi ofeshi lyakwe. Atila: “Balalengo bulanda, abapopomenwa, abashaicetekela. Balalila ilyo balelanda pa lwa nshila ifintu fibelelemo. Abengi—abafulisha ukucila ifyo umo pambi engatontonkanya—balyesha ukuipaya, te pa mulandu wa kuti nabasansamukisha nga nshi ica kuti bafilwa ukushipikisha; cili mulandu wa kuti bali ababulwe nsansa, abashisakamanwa, kabili abakanshika nga nshi pantu pa mushinku wa buteku ngo yu ‘e baletungulula’ kabili calikulisha ica kuti te kuti bakumemo.” Alundilepo ukuti: “Caliba ica kutiinya ku wacaice ukuyumfwa ukuti e uletungulula.” Ca cine, abana kuti batamisha pa mbali ukusalapula, lelo mu cituntulu balatasha ukutungulula kwa bufyashi ne fibindo. Balaba aba nsansa pa kuti abafyashi babo balabasakamana ica kuti balabemikila imipaka. “Calinenga ukutauluka icine cine,” e fyasosele umupungwe umo untu abafyashi baimikile imipaka.
16. (a) Cinshi cicitika ku bana bamo abakushiwa mu mayanda ya Bwina Kristu? (b) Mulandu nshi te lyonse cipilibulo kuti umwana nga apumbuka ninshi ukukansha kwapeelwe na bafyashi takwali kusuma?
16 Nalyo line, te mulandu no kukwata abafyashi ababatemwa kabili ababapayanishisha ukukansha kusuma, abacaice bamo, ukupala umwana umonaushi uwa mu cilangililo ca kwa Yesu, balakaana ukutungulula kwa bufyashi kabili balapumbuka. (Luka 15:11-16) Ico, nangu cibe fyo, tacipilibula ukuti abafyashi tabafikilishe icishingamo cabo ica kukansha umwana wabo bwino, nga fintu Amapinda 22:6 yakambisha. Amashiwi pa lwa ‘kukanshisho mwana umo afwile ukubela kabili takafumemo’ yapeelwe nge funde lya bonse. Ku ca bulanda, ukupala umwana umonaushi, abana bamo ‘balasuulo bukote bwa bafyashi.’—Amapinda 30:17.
17. Ni kuli cinshi uko abafyashi ba bana abapumbuka bengasansamushiwa?
17 Wishi wa mwana wapumbuka umo alilishike ati: “Nalyesha nalyesha ukumufika pa mutima. Nshishibe ne ca kucita pantu nalyesha ifyalekanalekana. Tapaba icabomba.” Tulesubilo kuti, abana bapumbuka aba musango yo, mu kupita kwa nshita, kuti baibukisha ukukansha kwabamo ukutemwa uko bapokelele no kubweluluka nge fyacitile umwana umonaushi. Nangu ni fyo, icishinka cibelelela ca kuti, abana bamo balapondoka no kucita ifintu fya bupulumushi ifikalifya abafyashi babo. Abafyashi kuti basansamushiwa pa kwishibo kuti nelyo fye ni kasambilisha wakulisha uwatalile abako pe sonde alimweneko uko umusambi wakwe umukokole Yuda Iskariote amubembele. Na Yehova umwine mu kushininkisha alilengelwe ubulanda lintu abana bakwe aba ku mupashi bakeene ukufunda kwakwe no kuba bacipondoka icishali mulandu Wakwe.—Luka 22:47, 48; Ukusokolola 12:9.
Mwe Bana—Ni Ani Muli no Kutemuna?
18. Ni shani fintu abana bengalangisha ukuti baleleka Lesa ukwisa intanshi?
18 Yehova acincisha imwe mwe bacaice ati: “Nakileni abafyashi benu muli Shikulu.” (Abena Efese 6:1) Abacaice babika Lesa intanshi ukupitila mu kucite ci. Mwiba abawelewele! “Umuwelewele asuulo kufunda kwa kwa wishi,” e fisosa Icebo ca kwa Lesa. Kabili mwiituntumba no kutunga ukuti tamukabila ukusalapulwa. Icishinka cili ca kuti “kuli aba nkulo abasanguluka mu menso yabo abene, lelo ku busali bwabo tabalasambwa.” (Amapinda 15:5; 30:12) E co umfwileni ukukambisha kwa bulesa—‘umfweni,’ ‘bikeni,’ ‘mwilaba,’ “peepekeni,” ‘lindeni,’ kabili ‘mwileka’ amalango no kufunda kwa bafyashi.—Amapinda 1:8; 2:1; 3:1; 4:1; 6:20.
19. (a) Milandu nshi iya maka iyo abana bakwata iya kumfwila Yehova? (b) Ni shani fintu abacaice bengalagisha ukuti baliba aba kutasha kuli Lesa?
19 Mwalikwata imilandu ya maka iya kumfwila Yehova. Alimutemwa, kabili alipeela amafunde yakwe, ukusanshako ifunde lya bana ukumfwila abafyashi, ku kumucingilila no kumwaafwa ukuipakisha ubumi bwa nsansa. (Esaya 48:17) Na kabili alipeela Umwana wakwe ku kumufwila pa kuti mwingapusushiwa ukufuma ku lubembu ne mfwa no kuipakisha umweo wa muyayaya. (Yohane 3:16) Bushe muli aba kutasha? Lesa alamona ukufuma mu myulu, ukubebeta imitima yenu ukumona nga ca kuti mu cine cine mwalimutemwa kabili nga mulatesekesha ukupayanya kwakwe. (Ilumbo 14:2) Satana na o wine alamona, kabili aleseebanya Lesa, ukutunga ukuti Tamwakamumfwile. Mulalenga Satana ukusamwa no ‘kulungulusha’ Yehova lintu mwakaana ukumfwila Lesa. (Ilumbo 78:40, 41) Yehova apaapaata imwe ati: “We mwana wandi, ube uwa mano, ulenge umutima wandi ukusamwa [ukupitila mu kuba uwa cumfwila kuli ine], ukuti njasuke ku ulenseebanya.” (Amapinda 27:11) Ee, icipusho cili ca kuti, Ni ani muli no kutemuna, Satana nelyo Yehova?
20. Ni shani fintu umusepela umo wasungilila ubukose bwa kubombela Yehova nelyo ni lintu atiinishiwa?
20 Tacayanguka ukucita ukufwaya kwa kwa Lesa mu kuba no kutitikisha uko Satana ne calo cakwe babika pali ifwe. Kuti caba ca kutiinya. Umusepela umo watile: “Ukuba no mwenso caba ngo kumfwe mpepo. Kuti wacitapo cimo.” Alondolwele ukuti: “Lintu waumfwe mpepo, ulafwalilapo cimbi pa muulu. Nga ucili uleumfwe mpepo, kufwalilapo na cimbi. Kabili kutwalilila fye ukufwalilapo fimbi ukufikila waleko kumfwe mpepo. E co ukupepa kuli Yehova lintu watiinishiwa kwaba ngo kufwalilapo ifyalundwapo lintu waumfwe mpepo. Nga ca kuti ncili uwa mwenso pa numa ye pepo limo, ndapepa na kabili, mu kubwekeshabwekeshapo, ukufikila umwenso waya. Kabili cilabomba. Calinjafwa ukusengauka impika!”
21. Ni shani fintu Yehova akatutungilila nga ca kuti mu cine cine twamuleka ukwisa intanshi?
21 Nga ca kuti mu cituntulu twaleka Lesa ukwisa intanshi mu bumi bwesu, Yehova akatutungilila. Akatukosha, ukutupayanishisha ukwaafwa kwa bumalaika lintu kulekabilwa, kwati fye fintu acitiile Umwana wakwe. (Mateo 18:10; Luka 22:43) Mwe bafyashi bonse na mwe bana shipeni. Kwateni akatiina kapala aka kwa Kristu, kakamuletela ukupekwa. (Esaya 11:3) Ee, ‘Beleni Lesa akatiina, bakeni amafunde yakwe; pantu ici e ca buntunse bonse.’—Lukala Milandu 12:13.
Bushe Kuti Wayasuka?
◻ Fishingamo nshi ifyo abakonshi ba kwa Yesu aba mu kubangilila bakabile ukulinganya?
◻ Cishingamo nshi ico abafyashi ba Bwina Kristu bafwile ukufikilisha?
◻ Kwaafwa nshi kwabako kuli baeluda ba Bwina Kristu abakwate ndupwa?
◻ Mulimo nshi uwa mutengo untu bankashi bengabomba mu cilonganino?
◻ Kufunda nshi no kukambisha ukwaba ukwakatama ukuti abana bomfwile?
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Ilingi line umwanakashi wa Bwina Kristu uwakosoka kuti apayanishisha umukashana ukwaafwa kulekabilwa
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Cisansamushi nshi abafyashi ba bana bapumbuka bengasanga ukufuma mu Malembo?