4 Each one of you should know how to control his own body*+ in holiness+ and honor, 5 not with greedy, uncontrolled sexual passion+ like the nations have that do not know God.+

11 On the other hand, do not put younger widows on the list, for when their sexual desires come between them and the Christ, they want to marry.

14 Therefore, I desire the younger widows to marry,+ to bear children,+ to manage a household, to give no opportunity to the opposer to criticize.