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  • Get Support
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g20 No. 1 pp. 8-13
A happy and confident woman in a big city.

FIND RELIEF FROM STRESS

How to Deal With Stress

To deal effectively with stress, you need to think about your physical health, the way you interact with others, and your goals and priorities in life​—that is, what you consider to be truly important. This article will review some practical principles that can help you to deal better with stress and perhaps even reduce it.

Try to Live One Day at a Time

A happy and confident woman walking in a big city.

“Never be anxious about the next day, for the next day will have its own anxieties.”​—MATTHEW 6:34.

Meaning: Daily anxieties are a part of life. But do not increase today’s anxieties by adding tomorrow’s to them. Try to live one day at a time.

  • Stress can cause anxiety. So try this: First, recognize that some stress is inevitable. Fretting over things you cannot prevent increases your stress. Second, understand that quite often things do not turn out the way we may fear they will.

Set Reasonable Standards

“The wisdom from above is . . . reasonable.”​—JAMES 3:17.

Meaning: Do not be a perfectionist. Avoid setting unrealistically high standards for yourself or others.

  • Be modest, set reasonable standards, and know both your limitations and those of others. When you do this, you will reduce stress all around and even encourage greater success. Also, keep a sense of humor. When you laugh​—even when something goes wrong—​you relieve tension and brighten your mood.

Know What Stresses You

“A discerning man will remain calm.”​—PROVERBS 17:27.

Meaning: Negative emotions can cloud clear thinking, so try to stay calm.

  • Identify what stresses you, and note your response. For example, when you feel stressed, note your thoughts, feelings, and behavior, perhaps even making a record of them. By becoming more aware of your response to stress, you may be able to deal with it more effectively. Also, think of ways to eliminate stressful things from your life. If that is unrealistic, look for ways to reduce their impact, perhaps by managing your tasks or time more efficiently.

  • Try to see things in a different light. What stresses you may not stress someone else. The difference may be in viewpoint. Consider these three suggestions:

    1. Do not be quick to assume bad motives. A person may cut ahead of you in a line. If you attribute his act to rudeness, you may become upset. Instead, why not assume that his motive was good? You may be right!

    2. See the positive side of a situation. A long wait at a doctor’s office or an airport is easier to bear if you use the time to do some reading or to catch up on work or email.

    3. Keep the big picture in mind. Ask yourself, ‘Will this problem be a big issue tomorrow or next week?’ Distinguish between minor or short-term issues and more serious ones.

Try to Be Orderly

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“Let all things take place decently and by arrangement.”​—1 CORINTHIANS 14:40.

Meaning: Try to maintain order in your life.

  • We like a reasonable amount of order in life. One thing that can contribute to disorder​—and stress—​is procrastination, and this may lead to a growing list of unfinished tasks. Why not try these two suggestions?

    1. Make a practical schedule, and stick to it.

    2. Identify and correct any attitudes that cause you to procrastinate.

Pursue a Balanced Lifestyle

“Better is a handful of rest than two handfuls of hard work and chasing after the wind.”​—ECCLESIASTES 4:6.

Meaning: Workaholics can deprive themselves of the benefits of their “two handfuls of hard work.” They may have no time or energy left to enjoy what they worked for.

  • Have a realistic view of work and money. More money does not mean more happiness or less stress. In fact, the opposite can be true. “The plenty belonging to the rich one does not permit him to sleep,” says Ecclesiastes 5:12. So try to live within your means.

  • Make time to relax. You relieve stress when you do things you enjoy. However, passive recreation, such as watching TV, may not help.

  • Keep technology in its place. Avoid constantly checking email, texts, or social media sites. Unless circumstances require it, do not check work-related email outside of working hours.

Take Care of Your Health

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“Physical training is beneficial.”​—1 TIMOTHY 4:8.

Meaning: Regular exercise promotes better health.

  • Develop healthful habits. Physical activity can lift your mood and improve your body’s response to stress. Eat nutritious food, and try to avoid skipping meals. Be sure to get enough rest.

  • Avoid harmful “solutions” to stress, such as smoking or drug and alcohol abuse. In the long run, these heighten stress, perhaps by robbing you of your health and hard-earned money.

  • See your doctor if your stress becomes overwhelming. Getting professional help is not an admission of failure.

    “KILL YOUR STRESS WITH KINDNESS”

    “A kind man benefits himself, but the cruel person brings trouble on himself.”​—PROVERBS 11:17.

    The book Overcoming Stress has a chapter entitled “Kill Your Stress with Kindness.” Treating others kindly, according to the author, Dr. Tim Cantopher, can promote health and happiness. On the other hand, an unkind or cruel person makes himself unhappy because he alienates himself from others.

    We may also get stress relief by treating ourselves kindly. For example, we should not make harsh or unrealistic demands on ourselves. Nor should we belittle or malign ourselves. “You must love your neighbor as yourself,” Jesus Christ said.​—Mark 12:31.

Set Priorities

“Make sure of the more important things.”​—PHILIPPIANS 1:10.

Meaning: Carefully consider your priorities.

  • List your tasks in order of importance. This will help you focus on the more important jobs, and it will reveal which ones you can put off, delegate, or even eliminate.

  • For a week, keep track of how you use your time. Then look for ways to make better use of it. The more you are in control, the less pressured you will feel.

  • Schedule some downtime. Even short breaks can reinvigorate you and reduce your stress.

A father and mother spending time together with their young son and daughter.

Get Support

“Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs it down, but a good word cheers it up.”​—PROVERBS 12:25.

Meaning: Kind, compassionate words from others can lift your spirits.

  • Talk things over with an understanding person. A confidant may help you to see things differently or even to see a solution you overlooked. And just unburdening yourself can make you feel better.

  • Ask for help. Can you delegate a task or share the workload?

  • If a work associate stresses you, look for ways to improve the situation. For example, could you kindly and tactfully tell the person how he or she makes you feel? (Proverbs 17:27) If such measures fail, can you reduce the time you spend with the person?

Care for Your Spiritual Need

A businessman at his workplace praying.

“Happy are those conscious of their spiritual need.”​—MATTHEW 5:3.

Meaning: As humans, we need more than food, clothing, and shelter. We have a spiritual need. To be happy, we must be conscious of that need and attend to it.

  • Prayer can be a big help. God invites you to “throw all your anxiety on him, because he cares for you.” (1 Peter 5:7) Prayer and wholesome meditation can result in deep inner peace.​—Philippians 4:6, 7.

  • Read spiritually uplifting things. The principles discussed in this magazine come from the Bible, which was written to satisfy our spiritual need. These also foster “practical wisdom and thinking ability.” (Proverbs 3:21) Why not set a goal to read the Bible? The book of Proverbs might be a good place to start.

THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS

“The insight of a man certainly slows down his anger, and it is beauty on his part to overlook an offense.”​—PROVERBS 19:11.

In the Journal of Health Psychology, Loren Toussaint states that “stress degrades [health] and forgiveness protects health.” He adds: “Forgiveness is the release of negative​—and the potential enhancement of positive—​feelings, emotions, and behaviors toward an offender.” He thus concludes that a forgiving spirit “may help minimize stress-related disorders.”

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