LARTIK LETID 18
Ankouraz Sakenn Nou Kamarad Pandan Bann Renion
“Anou interes nou ar sakenn nou kamarad . . . , ankouraz sakenn nou kamarad.”—EBRE 10:24, 25.
KANTIK 88 Fer Mwa Konn To Bann Semin
REZIMEa
1. Kifer nou reponn dan renion?
KIFER nou asiste bann renion? Rezon prinsipal se pou donn laglwar Zeova. (Ps. 26:12; 111:1) Nou osi asiste nou bann renion pou ki nou kapav ankouraz nou bann frer ek ser kan ena bann moman difisil. (1 Tes. 5:11) Ek kan nou lev nou lame pou reponn dan renion, nou fer sa de kitsoz-la.
2. Kan eski nou gagn lokazion pou reponn dan renion?
2 Sak semenn, nou gagn lokazion pou reponn dan renion. Par exanp, dan wikenn, nou kapav reponn pou letid Latour Degard. Ek dan renion lasemenn, nou kapav reponn dan Bann Perl Spiritiel, dan Letid Biblik Lasanble, ek dan bann lezot size osi.
3. Ki difikilte nou kapav gagne, ek kouma Ebre 10:24, 25 kapav ed nou?
3 Nou tou nou anvi donn Zeova laglwar ek ankouraz nou bann frer ek ser. Me kan nou reponn, nou kapav gagn bann difikilte. Kitfwa nou strese pou donn enn repons, ouswa kitfwa nou anvi reponn plis, me bann frer pa redonn nou repons kan nou lev lame. Kouma nou kapav sirmont sa bann difikilte-la? Nou trouv repons sa kestion-la dan let ki Pol ti ekrir bann Ebre. Kan li ti koz lor linportans pou zwenn ansam, li ti dir ki nou priorite se “ankouraz sakenn nou kamarad.” (Lir Ebre 10:24, 25.) Nou pou mwins strese pou donn enn repons, kan nou rapel ki enn sinp ti repons kapav ankouraz lezot. Ek mem si nou’nn lev nou lame plizir fwa, me ki nou pa’nn reponn souvan, nou bizin kontan parski lezot inn gagn lokazion pou reponn.—1 Pier 3:8.
4. Ki nou pou examine dan sa lartik-la?
4 Dan sa lartik-la, nou pou gete kouma nou kapav ankouraz sakenn nou kamarad dan enn ti lasanble kot pena boukou dimounn. Apre sa, nou pou gete kouma nou kapav ankouraz nou kamarad dan enn gran lasanble, kot ena boukou dimounn ki lev lame pou reponn. An dernie, nou pou gete kouma nou kapav ankouraz lezot par seki nou dir dan nou bann repons.
ANKOURAZ NOU KAMARAD DAN ENN TI LASANBLE
5. Dan enn ti lasanble, kouma to kapav motiv lezot pou reponn?
5 Dan enn ti lasanble ouswa enn group, kitfwa pena boukou dimounn ki lev lame pou reponn. Lerla, kitfwa frer-la bizin atann inpe avan ki enn kikenn reponn. Sa kapav fer renion-la paret long, ek sa li pa ankourazan. Ki to kapav fer? Lev to lame pli souvan. Kan to fer sa, sa kapav motiv lezot pou reponn pli souvan.
6-7. Kouma nou kapav mwin strese pou donn enn repons?
6 Me ki to pou fer si to strese pou donn enn repons? To pa tousel dan sa sitiasion-la. Alor, pou to kapav ankouraz plis to bann frer ek ser, to kapav rod bann fason pou diminie to stres kan to reponn. Kouma to kapav fer sa?
7 To kapav gagn bann konsey bien itil dan bann ansien nimero Latour Degard.b Par exanp, prepar twa bien. (Prov. 21:5) Plis to konn size ki pou fer dan renion, plis to pou santi twa alez pou reponn. To kapav osi donn bann repons ki pa tro long. (Prov. 15:23; 17:27) To pou mwin strese si to donn enn ti repons. Kan to donn enn ti repons, kitfwa enn ouswa de fraz, li pou pli fasil pou bann frer ek ser konpran to repons, ki si to donn enn long repons kot ena boukou lide. Kan to donn enn ti repons dan to prop mo, to montre ki to’nn bien prepar twa ek ki to’nn bien konpran size ki pe etidie.
8. Ki Zeova panse lor nou bann zefor?
8 Me ki to pou fer si, apre ki to’nn swiv sa bann konsey-la, to touzour strese pou reponn plis? To kapav sir ki Zeova apresie bann zefor ki to’nn fer. (Lik 21:1-4) Zeova pa demann twa pou fer plis ki seki to kapav fer. (Fil. 4:5) Alor, reflesi lor seki to kapav fer, fer zefor pou fer li, ek priye pou ki to mwin strese. O-koumansman, kitfwa to pou kapav donn zis enn ti repons.
ANKOURAZ NOU KAMARAD DAN ENN GRAN LASANBLE
9. Ki difikilte to kapav gagne dan enn gran lasanble?
9 Si ena boukou proklamater dan to lasanble, kitfwa to kapav gagn enn lot difikilte. Kitfwa boukou frer ek ser lev lame pou reponn, ek to pa gagn kantite repons ki to anvi. Anou get lexanp Danielle. Li ti touletan kontan reponn dan renion.c Li dir ki sa form parti so ladorasion, sa permet li ankouraz lezot, ek sa fer li ena plis konfians dan bann verite ki ena dan Labib. Me kan li’nn al dan enn pli gran lasanble, li ti gagn mwins repons. Parfwa, li pa ti gagn repons ditou! Danielle dir: “Mo ti bien agase. Mo ti ena linpresion ki mo ti rat enn privilez. Ek kan sa ti arive souvan, mo ti demann momem si bann-la pa ti fer sa par expre.”
10. Ki to kapav fer pou to reponn plis dan renion?
10 Eski to’nn deza ena mem santiman ki Danielle? Si wi, kitfwa to nepli anvi reponn ek to zis ekoute dan renion. Me fode pa to aret reponn. Ki kitsoz kapav ed twa? To kapav prepar plizir repons. Lerla, si to pa’nn gagn repons dan koumansman renion, to ankor ena bann lezot lokazion pou reponn. Kan to prepar to Latour Degard, reflesi kouma sak paragraf ena enn lien ar tem lartik-la. Kan to fer sa, sa pou ed twa pou donn bann pli zoli repons. Anplis, to kapav prepar twa pou reponn dan bann paragraf ki pli difisil. (1 Kor. 2:10) Kifer? Parski ena mwins dimounn ki reponn pou sa bann paragraf-la. Me ki to pou fer si apre ki to’nn swiv sa bann konsey-la, to touzour pa’nn gagn repons apre plizir renion? To kapav al get frer ki pou fer size-la ek dir li pou ki paragraf to ti pou kontan reponn.
11. Ki Filipien 2:4 ankouraz nou pou fer?
11 Lir Filipien 2:4. Pol ti ankouraz bann Kretien pou ‘rod lintere lezot.’ Kouma nou kapav swiv sa konsey-la pandan bann renion? Nou fer sa kan nou rapel ki lezot osi anvi reponn parey kouma nou.
12. Sit enn parmi bann meyer fason pou ankouraz lezot dan renion. (Get zimaz osi.)
12 Anou pran enn lexanp. Kan to pe koz ar to bann kamarad, eski to pou koz tou tomem ek to pa donn zot lokazion pou koze? To pa pou fer sa, pa vre! To anvi ki zot osi zot partisip dan konversasion-la. Dan mem fason, pandan bann renion, nou anvi ki maximum dimounn gagn lokazion pou reponn. Ek enn parmi bann meyer fason pou ankouraz nou bann frer ek ser, se kan nou donn zot lokazion pou partaz zot lafwa. (1 Kor. 10:24) Anou gete kouma nou kapav fer sa.
13. Kouma nou kapav les pli boukou dimounn reponn dan renion?
13 Pou koumanse, to kapav donn bann ti repons. Koumsa, pou ankor ena letan pou ki lezot reponn. Bann ansien ek bann proklamater ki ena lexperyans, kapav donn lexanp dan sa domenn-la. Mem kan to donn enn ti repons, pa koz lor tro boukou lide. Si to koz lor tou bann lide ki ena dan paragraf-la, lezot pa pou ena nanye pou dir. Par exanp, dan sa paragraf, nou’nn koz lor de lide: donn bann ti repons, ek pa koz lor tro boukou lide. Si tomem premie pou reponn pou sa paragraf-la, koz zis lor enn parmi sa de lide-la.
14. Kifer fode pa nou lev nou lame tro souvan? (Get zimaz osi.)
14 Esey pa lev to lame tro souvan osi. Si to fer sa, frer ki fer size-la kapav santi li oblize pou donn twa plizir repons, alor ki lezot pa’nn gagn lokazion pou reponn. Lerla, sa kapav dekouraz lezot pou lev zot lame.—Ekle. 3:7.
15. (a) Kouma nou bizin reazir si nou pa reisi reponn dan renion? (b) Kouma bann frer kapav montre konsiderasion pou tou dimounn? (Get lankadre “Si To Pe Fer enn Size.”)
15 Kan boukou dimounn lev zot lame dan enn size, kitfwa nou pa reisi reponn kantite fwa ki nou anvi. Ek parfwa, frer-la pa reisi donn nou repons ditou. Sa kapav dekouraz nou. Selman, fode pa nou ankoler akoz sa.—Ekle. 7:9.
16. Kouma nou kapav ankouraz bann ki reponn dan renion?
16 Si to pa reisi reponn kantite fwa ki to anvi, ekout bien kan lezot reponn. Lerla, to kapav felisit zot apre renion. Kan to felisit lezot, sa kapav ena mem lefe ki bann repons ki to pa’nn reisi done. Sa kapav ankouraz to bann frer ek ser. (Prov. 10:21) Kan nou felisit lezot, se enn lot fason pou ankouraz sakenn nou kamarad.
LEZOT FASON POU ANKOURAZ NOU KAMARAD
17. (a) Kouma bann paran kapav ed zot zanfan pou prepar bann repons ki adapte ar zot laz? (b) Dapre sa video-la, sit kat kitsoz ki enn kikenn kapav fer pou prepar enn repons. (Get not osi.)
17 Ki nou kapav fer ankor pou ankouraz sakenn nou kamarad pandan bann renion? Si to enn paran, ed to zanfan pou prepar bann repons ki adapte ar so laz. (Mat. 21:16) Parfwa dan renion, nou examinn bann size kouma bann problem dan maryaz ouswa limoralite. Dan sa bann kalite size-la, kitfwa pou ena zis enn-de paragraf kot enn zanfan kapav reponn. To kapav osi ed to zanfan pou konpran kifer li pa pou gagn repons sak fwa ki li lev so lame. Kan to explik li sa, li pa pou dekouraze kan li pa gagn repons.—1 Tim. 6:18.d
18. Kan nou reponn, kouma nou kapav evit atir latansion lor noumem? (Proverb 27:2)
18 Nou tou nou kapav prepar bann repons ki pou donn laglwar Zeova ek ki pou ankouraz nou bann frer ek ser. (Prov. 25:11) Mem si parfwa nou kapav partaz nou lexperyans personel, fode pa nou koz tro boukou lor noumem. (Lir Proverb 27:2; 2 Kor. 10:18) Olie sa, nou pou fer zefor pou atir latansion lor Zeova, lor so Parol, ek lor so bann serviter. (Rev. 4:11) Biensir, si enn kestion pou enn paragraf invit nou pou partaz enn lexperyans personel, nou kapav fer li. Nou trouv enn lexanp sa kalite kestion-la dan prosin paragraf.
19. (a) Ki pou arive kan nou ena konsiderasion pou tou nou bann frer ek ser? (Romin 1:11, 12) (b) Kifer to kontan reponn dan renion?
19 Mem si pena bann lalwa ki dir nou kouma nou bizin reponn, nou tou nou bizin fer zefor pou ankouraz nou kamarad. Pou sertin, kitfwa savedir reponn pli souvan. Ek pou lezot, kitfwa savedir ki zot bizin aksepte ki zot pa pou gagn repons tou kou, ek ki zot bizin kontan ki lezot osi gagn lokazion pou reponn. Kan nou rod lintere lezot pandan bann renion, nou tou nou pou “ankouraze par lafwa nou kamarad.”—Lir Romin 1:11, 12.
KANTIK 93 Beni Nou Renion
a Kan nou reponn dan renion, nou ankouraz sakenn nou kamarad. Selman, sertin kapav strese pou reponn. Ena lezot ki kontan reponn ek zot ti pou kontan reponn pli souvan. Dan sa bann sitiasion-la, kouma nou kapav montre konsiderasion pou sakenn nou kamarad pou ki nou tou nou gagn lankourazman? Ek kouma nou kapav donn bann repons ki pou ankouraz nou bann frer ek ser pou montre lamour ek pou fer bann bon aksion? Dan sa lartik-la, nou pou reponn sa bann kestion-la.
b Get lezot sizesion dan Latour Degard Zanvie 2019 paz 8-13, ek Latour Degard 1e Septam 2003 paz 19-22, an Franse.
c Finn sanz sertin nom dan sa lartik-la.
d Lor jw.org, get video Vinn Kamarad Zeova—Prepar To Repons.
e Get Latour Degard 15 Ziliet 2013, paz 32; ek Latour Degard 1e Septam 2003 paz 21-22, an Franse.
f DESKRIPSION ZIMAZ: Dan enn gran lasanble, enn frer ki’nn fini reponn pe donn lezot lokazion pou reponn.