13. Kuyini okumele sikukhumbule nxa sicebisa abanye kumbe nxa besinika amacebo okwelatshwa?

¹³ Khathesi asiphili esikhathini sokuthi amanye amaKhristu angasebenzisa “izipho zokusilisa” ukuthi aselaphe. Kodwa abanye abafowethu abangahlosanga okubi bangasinika amacebo singabacelanga ngezindaba eziphathelane lokwelatshwa. Kuliqiniso ukuthi abanye bangakunika amacebo ajayekileyo angakusiza sibili. UPhawuli wakwenza lokhu kuThimothi owayegula ebulawa yisisu mhlawumbe esasibangelwe ngamanzi angahlazekanga ayetholakala endaweni leyo.a (Khangela amabala angaphansi.) (Bala u-1 Thimothi 5:23) Kodwa lokhu kakufanani lokubamba ngamandla abanye abazalwane ukuthi basebenzise imithi yesintu, leminye imithi kumbe ukubatshela ukuthi badle ukudla okuthile okungeke kubancede loba kwezinye izikhathi kube yingozi kubo. Kwezinye izikhathi abanye abakucebisayo bangathi: ‘Isinini sami sasilomkhuhlane ofananayo sasebenzisa . . . Saba ngcono.’ Lanxa amacebo la engakhanya angani ayasebenza, kuhle ukuthi sicabangisise ngezingozi ezingaba khona ngokusebenzisa imithi ejayelekileyo kanye lezindlela zokwelatshwa ezaziwayo.​—Bala uZaga 27:12.