Olie Una Okulongesa Ovana Konthele ya Huku?
“Omulongwa kekahi kombanda yomulongesi wae, anthi, kese una walongesua nawa, makala ngomulongesi wae.”—LUCAS 6:40.
OVOHE vamwe vasoka okuti kavafuilepo pala okulongesa ovana vavo konthele ya Huku. Vasoka okuti kavalongesilwe nawa ine kavei nawa ondaka ya Huku opo valongese nawa. Moluotyo, otyilinga otyo tyakolela tyovohe vetyiavela ombunga ine ononkhalamutwe mbonongeleya.
Olie wafuapo pala okulongesa nawa ovana otyili novituwa oviwa? Tala etyi Ombimbiliya yapopia konthele yotyo, iya oeleka onondaka ombo netyi ovaovololi vavasa.
Otyilinga Tyovohe Otyipi?
Ombimbiliya ilongesa okuti: “Vohe, muhanumanesei ovana venyi, anthi velongesei ontheto nonondonga mba Tatekulu.”—Efésios 6:4, ‘Tradução interconfissional.’
Oityi ovaovololi vavasa: Ouwa patyi tyietela ovohe, inkha vakala nonthumbi yapama mu Huku? Onthele yosapi yati Participação dos Pais na Religião e o Comportamento Infantil, yalingwa mo 2009, yapopia okuti: “Okulipaka mongeleya tyipondola okukuatesako ovalume okukala ovohe ovawa. Ongeleya yava ombatelo nehongolelo, nomalongeso alekesa oñgeni omunthu ena okutyinda omuenyo.”
Ombimbiliya itoneka unene okuti otyilinga tyovohe tyokutekula nokulonga ovana tyakolela. (Provérbios 4:1; Colossenses 3:21; Hebreus 12:9) Okuti onondonga ombo na hono mbakolela? Mo 2009, Osikola onene mo Florida, yahoneka onthele imwe ipopia okuti ovana valandula unene ovituwa vio vohe. Ovaovololi vavasa okuti ovana vokuna ovohe vasuka unene nokuvelonga, vakala vali nokankhenda nokulihumba monkhalelo yaviuka. Ovakuendye vakala novituwa oviwa iya ovahikuena vakala nomutima omuwa. Tyotyili, onondonga mbo Mbimbiliya na hono nkhele mbakolela.
Otyilinga tyo Voina Tyakolela?
Ombimbiliya ilongesa okuti: “Uhayekepo otyitumino tya nyoko.”—Provérbios 1:8.
Oityi ovaovololi vavasa: Menima 2006 omukanda Manual de Psicologia Infantil wati: “Ovoina vakala vali omuvo omunyingi okutomphola novana tyipona ovohe, iya oupanga oo uvasiwa movilongo ovinyingi.” Mokueenda kuomuvo oo, ovana vahetekela unene ontheto novituwa vio voina nonkhalelo yavo yokupopia.
Tyina he na ina vaundapela kumwe pala okulongesa ovana otyili konthele ya Huku, vekahi nokuveavela ovipuka vivali viakolela. Tete, tyikuatesako ovana okukala noupanga na Tate yavo wo keulu, iya oupanga oo, upondola okuvekuatesako apeho momuenyo wavo. Vali, ovana vatala nawa oñgeni ovohe na ina vaundapela kumwe opo vavase ovilinga viakolela vahanda. (Colossenses 3:18-20) Namphila ovanthu ovakuavo pamwe vakuatesako he na ina, mahi otyilinga tyokulongesa ovana otyili konthele ya Huku, no ñgeni Huku ahanda ombunga yeende, o tyovohe.
Oñgeni ovohe vesukisa okulongesa ovana vavo? Ononkhalelo patyi mbokulongesa mbaviuka?