Nsolo Khumi Nacinomwe
Lemedzani Mulungu Pa Nyumba
1. Kodi kuphatisira citsogolero cinagumanika m’Mafala a Mulungu kwakhuya tani maukwati?
YAHOVA ndi Ntomesi wa ukwati, na Mafala ace asapasa utsogoleri wadidi kakamwe kwa mabanja. Ninga phindu yakuphatisira citsogolero ceneci, anthu azinji asakhala na maukwati akupembera. Mwakusimbika, anango akuti kalene akhakhala kwene basi pabodzi m’ukwati awangiswa kulembesa ukwati wawo mwakubverana na mwambo. Anango asiya kupita m’mabonde kunja kwa ukwati. Amuna auphanga akuti kalene akhamenya na kutikana akazawo na anawo apfunza kupangiza udidi na kukoma ntima.
2. Kodi umaso wa banja Yacikristu usaphatanizanji?
2 Umaso wa banja Yacikristu usaphataniza pinthu pizinji, ninga maonero athu a kukhalikira kwa ukwati, pinacita ife towera kukwanirisa kupitawirira kwathu pa banja na njira inafunikira ife kutsalakana piwalo pya banja. (Aefesi 5:33–6:4) Maseze tidziwe pinalonga Biblya thangwi ya umaso wa banja, kuphatisira uphungu unagumanika mwenemo ndi cinthu cakusiyana. Nee mbodzi wa ife asafuna kukhala ninga ale adatcinyuswa na Yezu thangwi ya kukhonda toweza matongero a Mulungu. Mwakunyengeteka iwo akhanyerezera kuti kuperekeka m’uphemberi basi kukhali kwakukwana. (Mateo 15:4-9) Ife nee tisafuna kukhala na cipangizo ca kulemedza Mulungu mbwenye tidodome pa kuciphatisira pa banja yathu ene. Mbuto mwa pyenepi, tisafuna kupangiza cilemedzo candimomwene caumulungu, cakuti ‘cinapasa upfumi.’—1 Timoti 5:4; 6:6; 2 Timoti 3:5.
Kodi Ukwati Usafunika Kupitiriza Mpaka Papi?
3. (a) Kodi ndi ninji cinacitika na maukwati mazinji, mbwenye ife tisatonga kucitanji? (b) M’kuphatisira Biblya yanu, tawirani mabvunzo adandandaliswa pantsi pa ndima ino.
3 Cisathimizirika cipangizo cakuti maukwati nkhabe nensa kufudzika. Anyakukwatana anango akuti akhala pabodzi m’piaka pizinji asatonga kumwalana mbakwatana na munthu unango. Mphyakudzoloerekambo kubva kuti aphale na atsikana akumala kwene kukwatana alekana pontho. Mokhonda tsalakana pinacita anango, ife tisafuna kukomeresa Yahova. Natenepa tendeni tidinge mabvunzo na malemba akutowerera kuti tione pinalonga Mafala a Mulungu pya kupitiriza kwa ukwati.
Munakwatana mamuna na nkazi, kodi iwo asafunika kukhala pabodzi m’nzidzi ungasi? (Marko 10:6-9; Aroma 7:2, 3)
Kodi ndi ipi thangwi ibodzi basi yakutawirika pa maso pa Mulungu inatawirisa anthu kumwalana na kukwatana na munthu unango? (Mateo 5:31, 32; 19:3-9)
Kodi Yahova asaona tani kumwalana kwakukhonda tawiriswa na Mafala ace? (Malakiya 2:13-16)
Kodi Biblya isatawirisa kulekana ninga njira yakumalisa nyatwa za m’ukwati? (1 Akorinto 7:10-13)
Kodi kulekana kusatawiriswa pantsi pa makhaliro api? (Masalmo 11:5; Luka 4:8; 1 Timoti 5:8)
4. Thangwi yanji maukwati anango asakhala kwenda na kwenda?
4 Maukwati anango asapembera na asakhala kwenda na kwenda. Thangwi yanji? Kudikhira mpaka anthu awiri anafuna kukwatana akole ndi cinthu cakufunika, mbwenye kugumana nzanu wamuukwati wakuti ali na manyerezero mabodzi ene na wakuti angakwanise kulonga pinthu mwaufulu ndi kwakufunikambo. Ngakhale tenepa, cakufunika kakamwe ndi kugumana nzanu wamuukwati wakuti asafuna Yahova na asalemedza Mafala ace ninga phata ya kumalisa nyatwa. (Masalmo 119:97, 104; 2 Timoti 3:16, 17) Munthu unoyu hanadzakhala tayu na manyerezero akuti pinthu pingakhonda famba mwadidi, angakwanise kulekana peno kumwalana. Iye hanadzaphatisira tayu madodo a nzace wamuukwati ninga mathangwi a kuthawa kupitawirira kwace. Mbuto mwa pyenepi, iye anadzathimbana na nyatwa mbagumana njira zakuphata basa towera kuzimalisa.
5. (a) Kodi kukhulupirika kwa Yahova kusaphatanizwa tani muukwati? (b) Kodi munthu angakwanise kuphindulanji thangwi ya kuphatisisa midida ya Yahova, ngakhale athimbane na kupingizwa?
5 Sathani asakakamira kulonga kuti tinganenseka, tinadzasiya njira za Yahova. (Yobe 2:4, 5; Misangani 27:11) Mbwenye Mboni zizinji za Yahova zidanenseka thangwi ya kupingizwa na nzawo wamuukwati nee zasiya madumbiro azo a ukwati tayu. Izo zisapitiriza kukhala zakukhulupirika kwa Yahova na matongero ace. (Mateo 5:37) Anango adapirira adzakhala akukomerwa na kuona kuti nzawo wamuukwati adzaphatana na iwo m’kutumikira Yahova—ngakhale pakumala kupingizwa m’piaka pizinji! (1 Pedro 3:1, 2) Akristu ale akuti anzawo amuukwati nkhabe cipangizo cakuti anadzacinja peno aasiya thangwi ya kutumikira Yahova, asadziwambo kuti anadzapaswa nkhombo thangwi yakupangiza kulemedza kwawo Mulungu pa nyumba.—Masalmo 55:22; 145:16.
Mbodzi Na Mbodzi Asafunika Kucita Khundu Yace
6. Kodi tisafunika kulemedza masasanyiro api towera tikhale na ukwati wakupembera?
6 Mwandimomwene, kukhala na ukwati wa kupembera kusaphataniza pizinji kupiringana kukhala pabodzi. Cinthu cikulu cinafunika kwa mbodzi na mbodzi wa anyakukwatana ndi kulemedza masasanyiro a Yahova a usolo. Pyenepi pisacitisa kuti paoneke kubverana na kuti onsene abve kuti ali akutsidzikizika pa nyumba. Pa 1 Akorinto 11:3, tisaleri tenepa: “Mwanachinthu [peno nsolo] wa mamuna ndi Kristu. Mwanachinthu wa nkazi ndi mamunache. Mwanachinthu wa Kristu ndi Mulungu.”
7. Kodi usolo usafunika kupangizwa tani pa banja?
7 Kodi mwapiona pidalonga vesi ineyi pakutoma? Inde, amuna onsene ali na Nsolo, Kristu, anafunika iwo kungonjera. Pyenepi pisabveka kuti mamuna asafunika kutsogolera m’njira inapangiza makhaliro a Yezu. Kristu asangonjera Yahova, asafuna kakamwe mpingo na asautsalakana. (1 Timoti 3:15) Iye afika pa ‘kuperekeka thangwi ya igreja [peno mpingo].’ Yezu ndi munthu wa “ntima wadidi na wakukhurudzika,” tayu wakuzikuza na wakukhonda tsalakana. Ale anatsogolerwa na iye ‘asagumana ntendere mu mitima mwawo.’ Munatsalakana mamuna banja yace m’njira ineyi, asapangiza kuti iye asangonjera Kristu. Nkazi Wacikristu asafunika kuona maphindu na cithondoso ca kuphedza mamunace na kungonjera usolo wace.—Aefesi 5:25-33; Mateo 11:28, 29; Misangani 31:10, 28.
8. (a) Thangwi yanji kucita pinthu m’njira Zacikristu kungaoneke ninga kwakukhonda phindulisa m’mabanja anango? (b) Kodi tisafunika kucitanji tingathimbana na makhaliro anewa?
8 Mbwenye panadzaoneka nyatwa. Panango munthu unango pa banja, mbasati kutoma kuphatisira midida ya Biblya, akhadakulisa nzimu wakuipirwa pa kulangwa na anango. Panango kuphemba m’njira yadidi na m’makhaliro akufuna nee kusabweresa maphindu tayu. Tisadziwa kuti Biblya isatidembetera kuthaukira “ukali wonsene, kudungunya kwonsene, nthonga zonsene, kuxola kwonsene.” (Aefesi 4:31) Kodi tisafunika kucitanji tingaona kuti ciwalo cinango ca banja nkhabe dziwa njira inango yakulonga, kusiyapo kulonga mwanthonga? Inde, Yezu hadasangizira tayu ale adanthusa na kunxola, mbwenye anyindira Babace. (1 Pedro 2:22, 23) Pa nyumba pangaoneka makhaliro akuyesera, pangizani kulemedza Mulungu m’kuphembera kwa Yahova towera mugumane ciphedzo cace mbuto mwa kuphatisira njira za dziko.—Misangani 3:5-7.
9. Mbuto mwa kusaka madodo, kodi amuna azinji Acikristu apfunza kucitanji?
9 Kazinji kene macinjo nkhabe fika mwakucimbiza, mbwenye uphungu wa Biblya usaphatadi basa ungaphatisirwa mwanzeru na mwakupirira. Amuna azinji aona kuti ukwati wawo watoma kukhala mwadidi mudatoma iwo kutowezera njira inatsalakana Kristu mpingo. Anacita khundu ya mpingo unoyu si anthu aungwiro tayu. Ngakhale tenepa, Yezu asaufuna, asaikha citsanzo cadidi kwa iwo na asaphatisira Malemba towera kuuphedza kuenda kutsogolo. Iye apereka umaso wace thangwi ya mpingo. (1 Pedro 2:21) Citsanzo cace cisawangisa amuna azinji Acikristu towera kutsogolera mwadidi mabanja awo na kuapasa ciphedzo cakufuna towera aende kutsogolo. Pyenepi pisabala misapo yadidi kakamwe mbuto mwa kusaka madodo na kukhonda kulonga.
10. (a) Kodi mamuna peno nkazi—ngakhale ule analonga kuti ndi Nkristu—anakwanisa tani kucitisa kuti umaso ukhale wakunensa kwa anango pa banja? (b) Kodi pangakwaniswe kucitwanji towera makhaliro aende kutsogolo?
10 Ndiye tani mamuna angakhonda bvesesa mabvero a piwalo pya banja yace peno angakhonda cita masasanyiro towera kucita pfunziro ya Biblya ya banja na mabasa anango? Peno ndiye tani nkazi angakhonda phedza na kupangiza kungonjera kwaumulungu? Anango asagumana maphindu adidi m’kuceza ninga banja mwakulemedzana thangwi ya nyatwa zawo. (Genesi 21:10-12; Misangani 15:22) Ngakhale tikhonde phindula na pyonsene pikhadikhira ife, mbodzi na mbodzi wa ife angakwanise kucita pinakwanisa iye towera kuendesa kutsogolo makhaliro apanyumba m’kupangiza misapo ya nzimu wa Mulungu m’umaso wathu na citsalakano cakufuna kwa piwalo pinango pya banja. (Agalata 5:22, 23, MZ) Makhaliro a pa banja anaenda kutsogolo, tayu m’kudikhira kuti anango acite cinthu, mbwenye m’kucita khundu yathu, mbitipangiza tenepa kuti tisalemedza Mulungu.—Akolose 3:18-21.
Matawiro Asagumanika Kupi
11, 12. Kodi Yahova atipasanji towera kuphedza kupemberesa umaso wathu wa banja?
11 Iripo micera mizinji inasaka anthu towera agumane uphungu wakutsalakana pinthu pyawo pya banja. Mbwenye tisadziwa kuti Mafala a Mulungu ali na uphungu wadidi kakamwe, na tiri akukomerwa nakuti Mulungu asatiphedza kuuphatisira kubulukira ku gulu yace yakuoneka. Kodi musaphindula mwakukwana na ciphedzo ceneci?—Masalmo 119:129, 130; Mikeya 4:2.
12 Kusiyapo kugumanika pa misonkhano ya mpingo, kodi mwapambula nzidzi towera kucita pfunziro ya Biblya ya pabanja mokhonda phonya? Mabanja anacita pyenepi angakwanise kuphedzeka towera akhale akuphatana m’ulambiri wawo. Umaso wawo wa pa banja usathambaruka munaphatisira iwo Mafala a Mulungu mwakubverana na makhaliro awo ene.—Deuteronomyo 11:18-21.
13. (a) Tingakhala na mabvunzo thangwi ya pinthu pya pa banja, kodi kazinji kene ndi kupi kunafuna ife gumana ciphedzo cakufunika? (b) Kodi pyakusankhula pyathu pisafunika kupangizanji?
13 Mungakwanise kukhala na mabvunzo thangwi ya pinthu pya pa banja. Mwacitsanzo, ndiye tani kukhala na ntengo wa ana anafuna imwe kubala? Kodi alipo mathangwi anatawirisa kutaya mimba? Mwana angakhonda tsalakana maka pinthu pyauzimu, kodi pisafunika kuti iye acite khundu m’ulambiri wa banja mpaka papi? Mabvunzo mazinji ninga anewa asatawirwa m’mabukhu akubuluswa na Mboni za Yahova. Pfunzani kuphatisira piphedzo pya kupfunza Biblya, kuphataniza índices, towera kugumana matawiro. Mungasowa mabukhu analongwa m’índice, kayang’aneni m’bibliyoteka ya Nyumba ya Umambo. Peno mungakwanise kugumana mabukhu anewa m’ntcini wanu wanzeru. Mungakwanisembo kuceza pya mabvunzo anu na amuna na akazi Acikristu akukola. Mbwenye lekani kudikhira matawiro analonga mwapakweca pinafunika imwe kucita peno nkhabe. Kazinji kene imwe mwekha peno pabodzi na nzanu wamuukwati musafunika kutonga pinafuna imwe kucita. Natenepa pyakusankhula pyanu pisafunika kupangiza kuti musalemedza Mulungu mwapakweca na pa nyumba.—Aroma 14:19; Aefesi 5:10.
Kubwerezera Pidapfunzwa
• Kodi kukhulupirika kwathu kwa Yahova kusaphatanizwa tani m’kukhulupirika kuli nzathu wamuukwati?
• Kodi ndi ninji cinafuna kutiphedza kucita pinakomeresa Mulungu tingakakamizwa na pinenso pya banja?
• Ngakhale anango acimwane kukwanirisa khundu yawo, kodi tisafunika kucitanji towera makhaliro a banja aende kutsogolo?
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Usolo wa mamuna usafunika kupangiza makhaliro a Yezu
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Kucita pfunziro ya Biblya ya pabanja mokhonda phonya kusaphedza kuiphataniza