Yehova syanga tsumulha akaghalha k’owosi-wosi oyukayipipa kutse oyukayiheka. (1 Kor. 10:​24, 33; 13:4) Muhanayira nibya n’abanywani ba Yesu ab’okwa ndungu bamasimbirira esyonzunzo busana n’esyonzumwa esithatholere. Thulebaye ekyabya okwa babiri b’okwa bakwenda ba Yesu—Yakobo na Yohana. Mubasaba Yesu bathi abahe ebitsumbi by’embere-mbere omwa Bwami bwiwe. Yesu mwathabatsemera busana n’emiyilhabiriryo. Omwakanya k’ekyo, mwasoborera abakwenda abosi 12 athi: “Oyuwanzire eribya mukulhu omwakathi-kathi kenyu atholere iniabya mukoli wenyu, n’oyuwanzire eribya w’erimbere omwakathi-kathi kenyu atholere iniabya mukobe w’abosi.” (Mk. 10:​35-37, 43, 44) Baghalha bethu abakasimbirira eribya abaghombe abawathikya ibanawithe ebilhubirirwa ebyuwene—ni bugha ambu, eby’erikolera abandi—bakaghasira ekithunga.—1 Tes. 2:8. w24.11 15-16 enu. 7-8

Omughulhu thukathwamo, olhwanzo lhukendi thuhira mw’omuhwa ow’erisondekania ebyo balikyethu banzire n’eribya ithunayikehirye. (1 Kor. 10:​23, 24, 32; 1 Tim. 2:​9, 10) Neryo ithukendi kolha erithwamu erikakanganaya olhwanzo n’erisikya ebya thuwithire abandi. Wamabya iwunawithe erithwamu likulhu kutsibu ery’erikolha, lengekanaya nga ni byahi ebikayithaghisibawa erithoka eririhira omwa mikolere. Yesu mwabugha athi ithwatsuka ‘eribaririra.’ (Lk. 14:28) Neryo lengekanaya okwa buthuku obwa wukayithagha, eby’erikolesya, n’akaghalha ako wukayithagha erithoka erihira erithwamu eryo ly’omwa mikolere. Ihanganayira ikyakuyithaghisya erikania n’ab’omwa famile yawu eriminya ekyo obuli mughuma atholere iniakolha erisighika erithwamu eryo. Busana naki eritheghekania ng’eri ni ly’omughaso? Ikyangana kangania ngoku erithwamu lyawu likayithagha erikolhwako esyombinduka ndebe kutse ikyakangania ngoku wutholere iwakolha erind’ithwamu eryuwene. Kandi omughulhu wukalighira ab’efamile yawu erisangira omw’ithwamu n’erihulikirira amalengekania wabu, ibakendianza erikolha haghuma nawu erihira erithwamu eryo ly’omwa mikolere. w25.01 18-19 enu. 14-15

Isaya akabisulha esyonzumwa esikaleka ithwabya ‘b’eritsema n’eritsanga’ omwa paradiso y’obunyakirimu. Nyamuhanga yuwahiraho eparadiso eyi. (Isa. 65:​18, 19) Sikiriswekaya eribya iniakathukolesaya eriwathikya abandu erilhua omwa bithongole by’ekihugho ebirimo enzalha y’obunyakirimu n’erib’ingirya omwa paradiso y’obunyakirimu eyuwenenga! Thukatsema busana n’emighisa eyo thukabana ahabw’eribya omwa kwenene, kandi thukanza ithwabwira abandi ba kuyo. (Yer. 31:12) Ithwe ng’abali omwa paradiso y’obunyakirimu thukatsemera amaha wethu. E Biblia yikalhaghanisaya yithi ‘thwasyahera amalima w’ebinyu n’erirya ebighuma bwagho.’ Sithwendi “syakolera busa” kundi ‘Omwami Mukulhu asyathutsumulha.’ Akathulhaghanisaya obutheya, engebe eyiri mw’etseme kandi eyiwithe ekighendererwa. Anasi ebiyithawa by’obuli mundu kandi ‘[akendi] syughuthya obwagha bw’abosi.’—Isa. 65:​20-24; Esy. 145:16. w24.04 22-23 enu. 11-12