Sunday, May 4
Do you despise the riches of his kindness and forbearance and patience, because you do not know that God in his kindness is trying to lead you to repentance?—Rom. 2:4.
We all appreciate people who are patient. Why is that the case? We respect those who can wait for something without getting frustrated. We appreciate that others are patient with us when we make mistakes. And we are grateful that our Bible teacher was patient with us as we struggled to learn, accept, or apply a Bible teaching. Above all, how thankful we are that Jehovah God is patient with us! Although we value patience in others, we ourselves may not always find it easy to be patient. For example, we may struggle to stay calm when stuck in traffic, especially if we are running late. We may lose our temper when others irritate us. And, at times, we could find it hard to keep waiting for Jehovah’s promised new world. However, in all these cases, we need to be more patient. w23.08 20 ¶1-2
APRIL 28–MAY 4
PROVERBS 11
Song 90 and Prayer | Opening Comments (1 min.)
1. Don’t Say It!
(10 min.)
Don’t say something that could damage your “neighbor” (Pr 11:9; w02 5/15 26 ¶4)
Don’t say something that is divisive (Pr 11:11; w02 5/15 27 ¶2-3)
Don’t reveal a confidential matter (Pr 11:12, 13; w02 5/15 27 ¶5)
FOR MEDITATION: How do Jesus’ words recorded at Luke 6:45 help us to avoid harmful speech?
2. Spiritual Gems
(10 min.)
Pr 11:17—How does showing kindness benefit us? (g20.1 11, box)
What spiritual gems from this week’s Bible reading would you like to share?
3. Bible Reading
(4 min.) Pr 11:1-20 (th study 5)
4. Starting a Conversation
(4 min.) INFORMAL WITNESSING. Look for an opportunity to tell the person something that you learned at a recent meeting. (lmd lesson 2 point 4)
5. Following Up
(4 min.) INFORMAL WITNESSING. Feature a video from the Teaching Toolbox. (lmd lesson 8 point 3)
6. Making Disciples
(4 min.) PUBLIC WITNESSING. Offer and demonstrate a Bible study. (lmd lesson 10 point 3)
Song 157
7. Don’t Let Your Tongue Be a Peace Wrecker
(15 min.) Discussion.
Because we are imperfect, we will stumble in our speech. (Jas 3:8) However, if we are mindful of common pitfalls, this will help us to avoid saying things that we will later regret. Here are some types of speech that can wreck the peace of the congregation:
Inappropriate boasting. This speech is self-praise and can stir up competition and envy.—Pr 27:2
Dishonest speech. This speech is not limited to telling outright lies but includes speech that is intentionally misleading. Even a little dishonesty can destroy trust and harm our reputation.—Ec 10:1
Harmful gossip. This speech is idle talk about people and their lives that distorts the facts or reveals private matters. (1Ti 5:13) It can lead to quarreling and divisions
Angry speech. This speech is an uncontrolled venting of our feelings against someone who upsets us. (Eph 4:26) It can cause hurt.—Pr 29:22
Play the VIDEO “Put Away” Peace Wreckers—Excerpt. Then ask the audience:
What did you learn about how easily our speech can disrupt the peace of the congregation?
To see how peace was restored, watch “Seek Peace and Pursue It.”
8. Congregation Bible Study
(30 min.) bt chap. 25 ¶14-21