7. How does an elder show that he is “not a lover of money”?

⁷ “Not a lover of money.” This means that you are not focused on material things. Whether you are rich or poor, you put Kingdom interests first in all aspects of your life. (Matt. 6:33) You use your time, energy, and other resources to worship Jehovah, to care for your family, and to serve the congregation. (Matt. 6:24; 1 John 2:15-17) Ask yourself: ‘How do I view money? Am I content with the necessary things? Or am I focused on making money and acquiring more material possessions?’​—1 Tim. 6:6, 17-19.

A “reasonable” man promotes peace. If you want to be known as being reasonable, listen to others and be open to their viewpoints. In a meeting, would you be willing to support the decision of the majority if no Bible law or principle is violated?

You are “not quarrelsome” or “quick-tempered.” Instead of being harsh or disagreeable, you are gentle and tactful.