You are “not a drunkard”; nor do you have a reputation as a heavy drinker.

“Not self-willed” means that you do not insist on doing things your way. You appreciate the value of many advisers. (Gen. 13:8, 9; Prov. 15:22) You are “not quarrelsome” or “quick-tempered.” Instead of being harsh or disagreeable, you are gentle and tactful.