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Ko Hono ʻAi ke Lavameʻa ʻa e Moʻui Fakafāmilí
1. (a) Naʻe anga-fēfē ʻa e kamata ʻa e fāmilí? (e) Ko e hā ʻa e taumuʻa ʻa e ʻOtuá ʻo fekauʻaki mo e fāmilí?
ʻI HONO fakatupu ʻe he ʻOtua ko Sihová ʻa e ʻuluaki tangatá mo e ʻuluaki fefiné, naʻá ne fakatahaʻi kinaua ke na maʻu ha fāmili. (Sēnesi 2:21-24; Mātiu 19:4-6) Ko e taumuʻa ia ʻa e ʻOtuá ki he ongo meʻa malí ni ke na fakatokolahi ʻaki hono maʻu mai ʻa e fānau. Ko ia, ʻi he tupu hake ʻa e fānaú, te nau mali pea fokotuʻu ha ngaahi fāmili ʻo kinautolu pē. Ko e taumuʻa ʻa e ʻOtuá, ke fai atu pē pea nofoʻi ʻe ha ngaahi fāmili fiefia ʻa e tapa kotoa pē ʻo e māmaní. Te nau ʻai ʻa e māmaní ko ha palataisi fakaʻofoʻofa ʻi he feituʻu kotoa pē.—Sēnesi 1:28.
2, 3. (a) Ko e hā ʻoku ʻikai totonu ai ke tukuakiʻi ʻa e ʻOtuá ki he taʻelavameʻa ʻa e fāmilí? (e) Ko e hā kuo pau ke fai kae maʻu ha moʻui fakafāmili lavameʻa?
2 Ka ʻi he ʻahó ni, ʻoku māvahevahe ʻa e ngaahi fāmilí, pea ʻoku ʻikai fiefia ʻa e ngaahi fāmili tokolahi ʻoku kei fakatahá. Ko ia ʻe ʻeke nai ʻe ha taha: ‘Kapau ʻoku moʻoni naʻe fakatupu ʻe he ʻOtuá ʻa e fāmilí, ʻikai ʻoku totonu ke tau fakatuʻotuʻa atu ki ha ngaahi ola lelei ange?’ Kaekehe, ʻoku ʻikai totonu ke tukuakiʻi ʻa e ʻOtuá ʻi he taʻelavameʻa ʻa e fāmilí. ʻOku ngaohi nai ha meʻa ʻe ha tokotaha-ngaohi-meʻa pea ʻai mo e ngaahi fakahinohino ki he anga ʻo hono ngāueʻakí. Ka ko e foʻui ʻo e tokotaha-ngaohi ʻo e meʻá ʻo kapau ʻoku taʻelavameʻa ʻa e meʻa ko iá koeʻuhi ko e ʻikai muimui ʻa e tokotaha-fakataú ki he ngaahi fakahinohinó? ʻIkai ʻaupito. Naʻa mo e meʻa ʻoku lelei taha ʻa hono ngaohí, ʻe taʻelavameʻa pē ia koeʻuhi ko e ʻikai ke ngāuetotonuʻakí. ʻOku tatau pē ia mo e fāmilí.
3 Kuo tokonaki mai ʻe he ʻOtua ko Sihová ʻa e ngaahi fakahinohino ʻi he Tohitapú ʻo fekauʻaki mo e moʻui fakafāmilí. Ka ʻo kapau ʻoku taʻetokangaʻi ʻa e ngaahi fakahinohinó ni, ko e hā leva ʻe hokó? Neongo ʻoku haohaoa ʻa e fokotuʻutuʻu fakafāmilí, ʻoku malava pē ke māvahevahe. ʻE ʻikai leva ke fiefia ʻa e ngaahi mēmipa ʻo e fāmilí. ʻI he tafaʻaki ʻe tahá, kapau ʻoku muimui ki he ngaahi tataki ʻi he Tohitapú, ʻe iku ai ki ha fāmili fiefia mo lavameʻa. Ko ia ai, ʻoku mātuʻaki mahuʻinga ke mahino kiate kitautolu ʻa hono ʻai ʻe he ʻOtuá ʻa e ngaahi mēmipa kehekehe ʻo e fāmilí, pea mo e ngaahi ngafa naʻá ne taumuʻa ke nau faí.
KO HONO FAKATUPU ʻE HE ʻOTUÁ ʻA E TANGATÁ MO E FEFINÉ
4. (a) Ko e hā ʻa e ngaahi faikehekehe ʻi he tangatá mo e fefiné? (e) Ko e hā naʻe fakatupu ai ʻe he ʻOtuá ʻa e ngaahi faikehekehe peheé?
4 ʻOku malava ʻe ha taha pē ke sio naʻe ʻikai ngaohi ʻe Sihova ʻa e tangatá mo e fefiné ke tatau. ʻOku moʻoni ʻokú na meimei tatau ʻi he ngaahi meʻa lahi. Ka ʻoku ʻi ai ʻa e ngaahi faikehekehe mahino ʻi hona fōtunga fakaesinó mo e ʻōkani fakafanaú. ʻIkai ngata ai, ʻokú na maʻu ʻa e ngaahi anga fakaeongo kehekehe. Ko e hā ʻoku faikehekehe aí? Naʻe ngaohi ʻa kinaua ʻe he ʻOtuá ʻi he founga ko iá ke tokoniʻi ʻa kinaua taki taha ke fakahoko ha ngafa kehekehe. Hili hono fakatupu ʻe he ʻOtuá ʻa e tangatá, naʻe pehē ʻe he ʻOtuá: “ʻOku ʻikai lelei ki he tangatá ke nofo toko taha pē. Te u ngaohi ha tokoni kiate ia, ko ha fakakakato ʻo ia.”—Sēnesi 2:18, NW.
5. (a) Naʻe anga-fēfē ʻa hono ngaohi ʻo e fefiné ko ha “fakakakato” ki he tangatá? (e) Naʻe fai ʻi fē ʻa e ʻuluaki malí? (f) Ko e hā ʻoku malava ke hoko ai ʻa e nofo malí ko ha fokotuʻutuʻu mātuʻaki fiefia?
5 Ko ha fakakakato ko ha meʻa ʻoku hoa-mālie pe fetāiaki mo ha meʻa kehe, ʻo ne ʻai ia ke kakato. Naʻe ngaohi ʻe he ʻOtuá ʻa e fefiné ko ha hoa-mālie ki he tangatá ke tokoni kiate ia ki hono fakahoko ʻa e ngaahi fakahinohino mei he ʻOtuá ke fakakakai mo tokanga ki he māmaní. Ko ia hili hono fakatupu ʻa e fefiné mei ha konga ʻo e tangatá, naʻe fakahoko leva ʻe he ʻOtuá ʻa e ʻuluaki malí ʻi he ngoue ko ʻĪtení ʻaki ‘hono ʻomi ia ki he tangata.’ (Sēnesi 2:22; 1 Kolinitō 11:8, 9) ʻOku malava ke hoko ʻa e nofo malí ko ha fokotuʻutuʻu fakafiefia koeʻuhi naʻe taki taha ngaohi ʻa e tangatá mo e fefiné fakataha mo e fiemaʻu ʻa ia ʻoku malava ke fakatōliʻa ʻe he taha ko ē ʻa ē. ʻOku femafamafatatauʻaki ʻa hona ngaahi anga kehekehé. ʻI he femahinoʻaki mo fehoungaʻiaʻaki ʻa ha husepāniti mo ha uaifi pea mo ngāue fakataha ʻo fakatatau ki hona ngafa kuo vaheʻí, ʻokú na taki taha fai ʻena tafaʻaki ki hono langa ha fāmili fiefia.
KO E NGAFA ʻO E HUSEPĀNITÍ
6. (a) Ko hai naʻe fakatupu ko e ʻulu ʻo e fāmilí? (e) Ko e hā ʻoku totonu ai eni mo ʻaongá?
6 ʻOku fiemaʻu ʻa e taki ʻi he nofo malí pe ʻi ha fāmili. Naʻe fakatupu ʻa e tangatá fakataha mo ha ngaahi ʻulungaanga mo e mālohi lahi ange ʻa ia ʻoku fiemaʻu ki hono fai ʻa e taki peheé. ʻI he ʻuhinga ko ʻení ʻoku pehē ai ʻe he Tohitapú: “He ko e husepaniti ko e ʻulu ʻo e uaifi, ʻo hange foki ko Kalaisi ko e ʻulu ʻo e Siasi.” (ʻEfesō 5:23) ʻOku ʻaonga eni, he ʻi he taimi ʻoku ʻikai ke ʻi ai ai ʻa e takí ʻoku ʻi ai ʻa e faingataʻaʻia mo e puputuʻu. Ko e ʻikai ke ʻi ai ha ʻulu ʻi he fāmilí ʻe hangē pē ia ko e feinga ke fakaʻuli ʻi ha meʻalele ʻoku ʻikai ʻi ai ha meʻafakaʻuli. Pea kapau ʻoku feʻauʻauhi ʻa e uaifí mo e tuʻunga-ʻulu peheé, ʻe hangē pē ia ko ha kā ʻoku fakaʻuli ʻe ha toko ua, ʻo taki taha ha meʻafakaʻuli ki hono puleʻi taki taha ha foʻi vaʻe muʻa ʻe taha.
7. (a) Ko e hā ʻoku ʻikai saiʻia ai ʻa e kau fefine ʻe niʻihi ʻi he foʻi fakakaukau ke ʻulu ʻa e tangatá? (e) ʻOku maʻu ʻe he tokotaha kotoa pē ha tokotaha ʻulu, pea ko e hā ʻoku fakapotopoto ai ʻa e fokotuʻutuʻu ko eni ʻa e ʻOtuá ʻo fekauʻaki mo e tuʻunga-ʻulú?
7 Kaekehe, ʻoku ʻikai saiʻia ʻa e kau fefine tokolahi ʻi he foʻi fakakaukau ko ia ʻoku totonu ke ʻulu ʻi he fāmilí ʻa e tangatá. Ko e ʻuhinga tefito ʻe taha ki he meʻá ni ko e ʻikai muimui ʻa e ngaahi husepāniti tokolahi ki he ngaahi fakahinohino ʻa e ʻOtuá ki he anga hono ngāueʻaki ʻa e tuʻunga-ʻulu totonú. Ka, ko ha moʻoniʻi meʻa mahino ia ʻa hono fiemaʻu ha taha ke ne tokonaki ʻa e fakahinohino pea fai ʻa e ngaahi fili aofangatukú kae lele lelei ha faʻahinga kautaha. Ko ia ʻoku fakapotopoto ʻa hono pehē ʻe he Tohitapú: “Ko e ʻulu ʻo e tangata kotoa pe ko Kalaisi; pea ko e ʻulu ʻo e fefine ko e tangata; pea ko e ʻulu ʻo Kalaisi ko e ʻOtua.” (1 Kolinitō 11:3) ʻI he fokotuʻutuʻu ʻa e ʻOtuá, ko e ʻOtuá pē ʻa e toko taha ʻoku ʻikai hano ʻulú. Ko e faʻahinga kehe kotoa, kau ai ʻa Sīsū Kalaisi, pea pehē foki ki he ngaahi husepānití mo e ngaahi uaifí, ʻoku fiemaʻu ke nau tali ʻa e ngaahi fakahinohinó pea anganofo ki he ngaahi fili ʻoku fai ʻe ha niʻihi kehe.
8. (a) Ko e faʻifaʻitakiʻanga ʻa hai ʻoku totonu ke muimui ai ʻa e ngaahi husepānití ʻi hono ngāueʻaki ʻa e tuʻunga-ʻulú? (e) Ko e hā ʻa e ngaahi lēsoni ʻoku totonu ke ako ʻe he ngaahi husepānití mei he faʻifaʻitakiʻanga ko iá?
8 ʻOku ʻuhinga ʻení kuo pau ke tali ʻe he tangatá ʻa e tuʻunga-ʻulu ʻo Kalaisí kae malava ke fakahoko honau ngafa ko e ngaahi husepānití. ʻIkai ngata aí, kuo pau ke nau muimui ki he faʻifaʻitakiʻanga ʻa Kalaisí ʻi hono ngāueʻaki ʻa e tuʻunga-ʻulú ki honau uaifí ʻo hangē ko e fai ʻe Kalaisi ki he fakatahaʻanga ʻa hono kau muimuí. Naʻe anga-fēfē ʻa e feangai ʻa Kalaisi mo hono kau muimui ʻi māmaní? Naʻe fai maʻu pē ia ʻi ha founga anga-ʻofa mo fakaʻatuʻi. Naʻa mo e taimi naʻa nau faituai ai ke tali ʻene fakahinohinó, naʻe ʻikai ʻaupito te ne anga-fefeka pe ʻita vave. (Maʻake 9:33-37; 10:35-45; Luke 22:24-27; Sione 13:4-15) Ko hono moʻoní naʻá ne foaki loto-fiefoaki ʻene moʻuí maʻanautolu. (1 Sione 3:16) ʻOku totonu ke ako fakamākukanga ʻe ha husepāniti Kalisitiane ʻa e faʻifaʻitakiʻanga ʻa Kalaisí, pea fai ʻa e lelei taha te ne malavá ke muimui ai ʻi heʻene feangai mo e fāmilí. Ko hono olá, ʻe ʻikai te ne hoko ai ko ha ʻuluʻi fāmili fakaaoao, siokita pe taʻefakaʻatuʻi.
9. (a) Ko e hā ʻa e lāunga ʻoku fai ʻe he ngaahi uaifi tokolahi? (e) Ko e hā ʻoku totonu mo fakapotopoto ke manatuʻi maʻu pē ʻe he ngaahi husepānití ʻi heʻenau ngāueʻaki ʻa e tuʻunga-ʻulú?
9 Kaekehe, ʻi he tafaʻaki ʻe tahá, ʻoku totonu ke fakakaukau ʻa e ngaahi husepānití ki he meʻá ni: ʻOku lāunga ʻa ho uaifí ʻo pehē ʻoku ʻikai te ke mātuʻaki ngāue ko e ʻulu ʻo e fāmilí? ʻOkú ne pehē ʻoku ʻikai te ke fai ʻa e taki ʻi he ʻapí, ʻo palani ʻa e ngaahi ngāue fakafāmilí pea ngāueʻaki ʻa e fatongia ke fai ha ngaahi fili aofangatuku? Ka ko e meʻa ʻeni ʻoku finangalo ʻe he ʻOtuá ke ke faí ʻi ho tuʻunga ko ha husepānití. Ko hono moʻoní, ʻe fakapotopoto ke ke fanongo ki he ngaahi fokotuʻu mo e ngaahi manako ʻa e ngaahi mēmipa kehe ʻo e fāmilí pea fakakaukauʻi ʻa e ngaahi fokotuʻu ko iá ʻi hoʻo ngāueʻaki ʻa e tuʻunga-ʻulú. ʻI ho tuʻunga ko e husepānití, ʻoku hā mahino ʻokú ke maʻu ʻa e ngafa faingataʻa ange ʻi he fāmilí. Ka ʻo kapau te ke fai ha feinga loto-moʻoni ke fakahoko ia, ʻe meimei hehema maʻu pē ʻa ho uaifí ke fai ha tokoni mo ha poupou kiate koe.—Palōvepi 13:10; 15:22.
KO HONO FAKAHOKO ʻA E NGAFA ʻO E UAIFÍ
10. (a) Ko e hā ʻa e ʻalunga ʻoku naʻinaʻi mai ʻe he Tohitapú ki he ngaahi uaifí? (e) Ko e hā ʻoku hoko ʻi he ʻikai tokanga ʻa e ngaahi uaifí ki he akonaki ʻa e Tohitapú?
10 Hangē ko ia ʻoku pehē ʻe he Tohitapú, naʻe ngaohi ʻa e fefiné ko ha tokoni ki hono husepānití. (Sēnesi 2:18) ʻI heʻene hoa mo e ngafa ko iá, ʻoku naʻinaʻi mai ʻe he Tohitapú: “ʻA e kau fefine, mou anganofo ki siʻomou ngaahi husepaniti.” (ʻEfesō 5:22) Kuo hoko lahi ʻi he ʻahó ni ʻa e anga-fitaʻa fakaefefiné mo e feʻauʻauhi mo e tangatá. Ka ʻi he taimi ʻoku teke muʻa ai ʻa e ngaahi uaifí, ʻo feinga ke ʻulú, ʻoku meimei hoko maʻu pē ʻa ʻenau ngāué ʻo fakatupunga ʻa e ngaahi faingataʻaʻia. ʻOku hangē leva ʻoku pehē ʻe he ngaahi husepāniti tokolahi: ‘Kapau ʻokú ne fie taki ʻi he fāmilí, tuku ā ke ne fai ia.’
11. (a) ʻOku anga-fēfē ʻa e malava ʻe ha uaifi ke tokoni ki hono husepānití ke fai ʻa e takí? (e) Kapau ʻoku fakahoko ʻe he uaifí hono ngafa ko ia mei he ʻOtuá, ko e hā hano lelei ki hono husepānití?
11 Kaekehe, mahalo ʻokú ke ongoʻi ʻoku fakamālohiʻi koe ke ke taki, koeʻuhi ʻoku ʻikai fai ia ʻe ho husepānití. Ka ʻoku malava ke ke ngāue lahi ange ke tokoniʻi ia ke fakahoko hono ngaahi fatongia ko e ʻulu ʻo e fāmilí? ʻOkú ke fakahāhā ʻokú ke hanga kiate ia ki he takí? ʻOkú ke kole ke maʻu ʻene ngaahi fokotuʻú mo ʻene tatakí? ʻOkú ke fakaʻehiʻehi mei hano manukiʻi ʻa e meʻa ʻokú ne faí? Kapau ʻokú ke mātuʻaki ngāue ke fakahoko ho ngafa kuo vaheʻi ʻe he ʻOtuá ʻi he fāmilí, ʻe kamata nai ʻe ho husepānití ke fakahoko hono ngafá.—Kolose 3:18, 19.
12. Ko e hā ʻokú ne fakahaaʻi ʻoku malava ke fakahā ʻe he ngaahi uaifí ʻa ʻenau ngaahi fakakaukaú, neongo kapau ʻoku ʻikai tatau ia mo e ngaahi fakakaukau ʻa e husepānití?
12 ʻOku ʻikai ʻuhinga ia heni ʻoku ʻikai totonu ke fakahā ʻe ha uaifi ʻa ʻene ngaahi fakakaukaú ʻo kapau ʻoku kehe ia mei he ngaahi fakakaukau ʻa hono husepānití. Mahalo ʻokú ne maʻu ha fakakaukau totonu, pea ʻe ʻaonga ki he fāmilí ʻo kapau ʻe fanongo ki ai ʻa e husepānití. ʻOku fokotuʻu mai ʻa Sela ko e uaifi ʻo ʻĒpalahamé ko ha faʻifaʻitakiʻanga ki he ngaahi uaifi Kalisitiané koeʻuhi ko ʻene anganofo ki hono husepānití. (1 Pita 3:1, 5, 6) Ka naʻá ne fokotuʻu ha fakaleleiʻanga ki ha palopalema ʻi he fāmilí, pea ʻi he ʻikai ke loto-tatau ki ai ʻa ʻĒpalahamé naʻe folofola leva ʻa e ʻOtuá kia ʻĒpalahame: “Fanongo kiate ia.” (Sēnesi 21:9-12, NW) Ko hono moʻoní, ʻi hono fai ʻe he husepānití ha fili aofangatuku ʻi ha meʻa, ʻoku totonu ke poupouʻi ia ʻe he uaifí ʻo kapau heʻikai tupu ai haʻane maumauʻi ʻa e lao ʻa e ʻOtuá.—Ngāue 5:29.
13. Ko e hā ʻe fai ʻe ha uaifi lelei, pea ko e hā hono ola ki hono fāmilí?
13 ʻI hono fakahoko totonu ʻe he uaifí ʻa hono ngafá, ʻoku lahi ai ʻa e meʻa ʻoku malava ke ne fai ʻi hono tokangaʻi ʻa e fāmilí. Ko e fakatātā, ʻoku malava ke ne teuteu ʻa e ngaahi meʻakai fakatupu moʻui lelei, tauhi ʻa e ʻapí ke maʻa mo maau pea kau ʻi hono fakahinohinoʻi ʻa e fānaú. ʻOku naʻinaʻi mai ʻe he Tohitapú ki he kau fefine malí “ke nau ʻofa ki honau ngaahi husepaniti, pea ʻofa ki heʻenau fānau, ke nau angafakapotopoto, ke nau angamaʻa, ke nau ngāue ʻi ʻapi, ke nau angalelei, ke nau anganofo ki honau ngaahi husepaniti naʻa lauʻikovi ʻa e folofola ʻa e ʻOtua.” (Taitusi 2:4, 5) Ko e uaifi mo e faʻē ʻokú ne fakahoko ʻa e ngaahi fatongiá ni te ne aʻusia ʻa e ʻofa mo e ʻapasia tuʻuloa mei hono fāmilí.—Palōvepi 31:10, 11, 26-28.
KO E TUʻUNGA ʻO E FĀNAÚ ʻI HE FĀMILÍ
14. (a) Ko e hā ʻa e tuʻunga totonu ʻo e fānaú ʻi he fāmilí? (e) Ko e hā ʻoku malava ke ako ʻe he fānaú meí he faʻifaʻitakiʻanga ʻa Sīsuú?
14 Naʻe tuʻutuʻuni ʻa Sihova ki he ʻuluaki ongo meʻa malí: “Mo fakatupu mo fakatokolahi.” (Sēnesi 1:28) ʻIo, naʻe folofola ange ʻa e ʻOtuá kiate kinaua ke na fanafanau. Naʻe fakataumuʻá ko ha tāpuaki ʻa e fanaú ki he fāmilí. (Sāme 127:3-5) Koeʻuhi ʻoku nau moʻulaloa ki he lao mo e fekau ʻa ʻenau mātuʻá, ʻoku fakatatau ai ʻe he Tohitapú ʻa e tuʻunga ʻo e fānaú ki he tuʻunga ʻo ha tamaioʻeiki. (Palōvepi 1:8; 6:20-23; Kalētia 4:1) Naʻa mo Sīsū naʻá ne anganofo ki heʻene mātuʻá ʻi heʻene kei tamasiʻí. (Luke 2:51) ʻOku ʻuhinga ʻení naʻá ne talangofua kiate kinaua, ʻo fai ʻa e meʻa naʻá na tuʻutuʻuní. Kapau ʻe fai pehē ʻa e fānau kotoa pē, ʻe mātuʻaki tokoni ia ki he fiefia ʻa e fāmilí.
15. Ko e hā ʻoku faʻa hoko ai ʻa e fānaú ko ha fakatupunga loto-mamahi ki heʻenau ngaahi mātuʻá?
15 Ka ʻi he ʻikai ke hoko ko ha tāpuaki ki he fāmilí, ʻoku faʻa hoko ʻa e fānau ia ʻi he ʻaho ní ko ha fakatupunga ʻo e loto-mamahi ki he ngaahi mātuʻá. Ko e hā? ʻOku tupu ia ʻi he ʻikai ke ngāueʻaki ʻe he fānaú, pea pehē ki he ngaahi mātuʻá, ʻa e ngaahi fakahinohino ʻa e Tohitapú ʻo fekauʻaki mo e moʻui fakafāmilí ʻi heʻenau moʻuí. Ko e hā ʻa e niʻihi ʻo e ngaahi lao mo e ngaahi tefitoʻi moʻoni ko ʻeni ʻa e ʻOtuá? Tau vakaiʻi ha niʻihi ʻo kinautolu ʻi he ngaahi peesi hoko maí. ʻI heʻetau fai iá, sio pe ʻe ʻikai te ke loto-tatau ki he pehē te ke malava ʻo tokoni ki he fiefia ʻa ho fāmilí ʻo kapau te ke fai ʻa e ngaahi meʻa ko iá.
ʻOfa mo Fai ha Fakaʻapaʻapa ki Ho Uaifí
16. Ko e hā ʻoku fekau ki he ngaahi husepānití ke nau faí, pea ʻoku anga-fēfē ʻa hono fakahoko totonu ʻa e ngaahi fekaú ni?
16 ʻI he poto fakaʻotuá, ʻoku pehē ʻe he Tohitapú: “ʻOku totonu ke ʻofa ʻa e ngaahi husepānití ki honau ngaahi uaifí ʻo hangē ko ʻenau ʻofa ki honau sino ʻonautolú.” (ʻEfesō 5:28-30, NW) Kuo toutou fakamoʻoniʻi mei he ngaahi meʻa kuo hokó, ke fiefia ʻa e ngaahi uaifí ʻoku fiemaʻu ke nau ongoʻi ʻoku ʻofaʻi ʻa kinautolu. ʻOku ʻuhinga ení ʻoku totonu ki ha husepāniti ke ne fai ha tokanga makehe ki hono uaifí, ʻo kau ai ʻa e manavaʻofa, mahino mo e fakahāhā ʻa e ʻofa. ʻOku fiemaʻu ke ne ‘fai kiate ia ha fakaʻapaʻapa, ʻo hangē ko ia ʻoku tala mai ʻe he Tohitapú. Te ne fai eni ʻaki ʻene fakaʻatuʻi ʻa e uaifí ʻi he meʻa kotoa pē ʻokú ne faí. ʻI he foungá ni te ne maʻu ai ʻa e ʻapasia mei he uaifí.—1 Pita 3:7.
Fakaʻapaʻapa ki Ho Husepānití
17. Ko e hā ʻoku fekau ki he ngaahi uaifí ke nau faí, pea ʻoku anga-fēfē ʻa ʻenau fai ení?
17 Pea fēfē ʻa e ngaahi uaifí? ʻOku pehē ʻe he Tohitapú: “Ko e uaifi ke ne fakaʻapaʻapa ki hono husepaniti.” (ʻEfesō 5:33) Ko ha ʻuhinga tefito ʻoku ʻiteʻita ai ʻa e ngaahi husepāniti ʻe niʻihi ki honau uaifí ko e ʻikai ke tokanga ki he akonakí ni. ʻOku fakahāhā ʻe ha uaifi ʻa e fakaʻapaʻapá ʻaki ʻene poupouʻi ʻa e ngaahi fili ʻoku fai ʻe hono husepānití, pea ʻi he ngāue fakataha kakato mo ia ke aʻusia ʻa e ngaahi taumuʻa ʻa e fāmilí. ʻI heʻene fakahoko hono ngafa faka-Tohitapu ko e ‘tokoni mo e fakakakato’ ʻo hono husepānití, ʻokú ne ʻai ke faingofua ai ʻa e ʻofa ange kiate ia ʻa hono husepānití.—Sēnesi 2:18.
Ke Feangatonuʻaki
18. Ko e hā ʻoku totonu ai ke feangatonuʻaki ʻa e ongo meʻa malí?
18 ʻOku pehē ʻe he Tohitapú: “Kuo pau ke feangatonuʻaki ʻa e ngaahi husepānití mo e ngaahi uaifí.” ʻOku pehē ki he husepānití: “Ke fiefia mo ho uaifí pea maʻu hoʻo fiefiá ʻi he taʻahine kuó ke mali mo iá . . . ko e hā te ke toe foaki ai hoʻo ʻofá ki ha fefine kehe? Ko e hā te ke toe manako lahi ange ai ki he fakaʻofoʻofa ʻo e uaifi ʻo ha tangata kehe?” (Hepelū 13:4; Palōvepi 5:18-20, Today’s English Version) ʻIo, ʻoku fepaki ʻa e tonó mo e lao ʻa e ʻOtuá; ʻoku fakatau ia ki he palopalema ʻi he nofo malí. “ʻOku fakakaukau ʻa e kakai tokolahi ʻoku ʻai nai ʻe he tonó ke ifo ange ʻa e nofo malí,” ko e lau ia ʻa e tokotaha-fakatotolo ʻo fekauʻaki mo e nofo malí, ka naʻá ne toe tānaki atu ʻoku iku maʻu pē ʻa e faingāmeʻa peheé ki he “palopalema moʻoni.”—Palōvepi 6:27-29, 32.
Kumi ki he Fiemālie ʻa Ho Hoá
19. ʻOku malava fēfē ke maʻu ʻe he ngaahi hoa malí ʻa e fiefia lahi taha mei he fehokotaki fakasinó?
19 ʻOku ʻikai ke maʻu ʻa e fiefiá ʻi heʻete kumi tefito pē ki he fiemālie fakaesino ʻaʻatá. Ka, ʻoku maʻu ia ʻi heʻete toe fekumi ke fakafiemālieʻi ʻa hoto hoá. ʻOku pehē ʻe he Tohitapú: “Ke fai ange ʻe he husepaniti ki hono uaifi ʻa e toʻonga totonu; pea pehe foki ʻa e uaifi ki hono husepaniti.” (1 Kolinitō 7:3) ʻOku fakamamafaʻi ʻa e ʻoange, ʻa e foaki. Pea ʻi hono fai ʻa e foakí, ʻoku toe maʻu ai ʻe he tokotaha-foakí ʻa e fiemālie moʻoni. ʻOku hangē ko ia naʻe lea ʻaki ʻe Sīsū: “ʻOku te monūʻia [fiefia, NW] lahi ʻi he fai ha foaki atu, ʻi heʻete maʻu ha foaki mai.”—Ngāue 20:35.
Tuku Atu Koe ki Hoʻo Fānaú
20. Ko e hā ʻoku mātuʻaki mahuʻinga ai ke fai ha ngaahi meʻa mo ʻete fānaú?
20 Naʻe pehē ʻe ha kiʻi tama taʻu valu nai: “ʻOku ngāue ʻeku tamaí ʻi he taimi kotoa pē. ʻOku ʻikai ʻaupito te ne ʻi ʻapi. ʻOkú ne ʻomai kiate au ʻa e paʻanga mo e ngaahi meʻavaʻinga lahi, ka ʻoku tātātaha ke u sio kiate ia. ʻOku ou ʻofa kiate ia mo fakaʻamu ke ʻoua te ne ngāue ʻi he taimi kotoa pē, kae lava ke u sio lahi ange kiate ia.” Hono ʻikai lelei ange ʻa e moʻui fakafāmilí ʻi he muimui ʻa e ongo mātuʻá ki he fekau ʻa e Tohitapú ke akoʻi ʻena fānaú ‘ʻi heʻenau tangutu hifo ʻi honau falé pea ʻi heʻenau fononga atu ʻi he halá pea ʻi heʻenau tākoto hifó pea ʻi heʻenau tuʻu haké’! ʻOku pau ke tānaki atu ki he fiefia ʻa e fāmilí ʻa hoʻo tuku atu koe ki hoʻo fānaú, ʻo fakamoleki ha taimi ʻaonga mo kinautolu.—Teutalōnome 11:19; Palōvepi 22:6.
Tokonaki ʻa e Akonaki ʻOku Fiemaʻú
21. Ko e hā ʻa e lau ʻa e Tohitapú ʻo fekauʻaki mo hono akonakiʻi ʻa e fānaú?
21 ʻOku fokotuʻu ʻe heʻetau Tamai fakahēvaní ha faʻifaʻitakiʻanga totonu ʻaki ʻene tokonaki ki hono kakaí ʻa e fakahinohino fakatonutonú, pe ko e akonakí. ʻOku fiemaʻu ʻa e akonakí ki he fānaú. (Hepelū 12:6; Palōvepi 29:15) ʻI hono fakatokangaʻi ení, ʻoku naʻinaʻi mai ʻe he Tohitapú: “Ko kimoutolu, ʻa e ngaahi tamai, . . . hanganaki tauhi hake [hoʻomou fānau] ʻi he akonaki mo e fakatonutonu fakaʻatamai ʻa Sihova.” Ko hono fai ʻa e akonakí, neongo kapau ʻoku fakakau nai ai ha tā pe ko hano toʻo ha ngaahi faingamālie, ko ha fakamoʻoni ia ʻoku ʻofa ʻa e ngaahi mātuʻá ki heʻenau fānaú. ʻOku pehē ʻe he Tohitapú: “Ko ia ʻoku ne ʻofa [ki hono foha] ʻoku ne tautea ia.”—ʻEfesō 6:4, NW; Palōvepi 13:24; 23:13, 14.
Kau Talavou—Talitekeʻi ʻa e Ngaahi Founga Fakamāmaní
22. Ko e hā ʻa e fatongia ʻoku ʻi he kau talavoú, pea ko e hā ʻoku fakakau ʻi hono fakahoko iá?
22 ʻOku fai ʻe he māmaní ha feinga ke ʻai ʻa e kau talavoú ke nau maumauʻi ʻa e ngaahi lao ʻa e ʻOtuá. ʻIkai ngata aí, hangē ko ia ʻoku fakahā ʻe he Tohitapú, “ʻoku tāvani ʻa e vale ʻi he loto ʻo ha tamasiʻi.” (Palōvepi 22:15) Ko ia ko ha faitau ke fai ʻa e meʻa ʻoku totonú. Ka ʻoku pehē ʻe he Tohitapú: “Fānau, ko homou fatongia faka-Kalisitiané ke talangofua ki hoʻomou mātuʻá, he ko e meʻa totonu ia ke fai.” Te ne ʻomai ʻa e ngaahi pale maʻongoʻonga. Ko ia ai, fānau, ke mou poto. Tokanga ki he akonakí: “Manatu ki ho Tokotaha-fakatupú ʻi hoʻo kei siʻí.” Talitekeʻi ʻa e ngaahi fakatauele ke ngāueʻaki ʻa e faitoʻo kona tapú, ke konā, ke fai feʻauakí pea mo fai ʻa e ngaahi meʻa kehe ko ia ʻoku fepaki mo e ngaahi lao ʻa e ʻOtuá.—ʻEfesō 6:1-4; Koheleti 12:1; Palōvepi 1:10-19, Today’s English Version.
Ako Fakataha ʻa e Tohitapú
23. Ko e hā ʻa e ngaahi ʻaonga ʻe maʻu ʻe he ngaahi fāmilí ʻi hono ako fakataha ʻa e Tohitapú?
23 Kapau ʻoku ako mo ngāueʻaki ʻe ha mēmipa ʻe taha ʻo e fāmilí ʻa e ngaahi akonaki ʻa e Tohitapú, ʻe tokoni ia ki he fiefia ʻa e fāmilí. Ka ʻo kapau ʻoku fai pehē kotoa—ʻa e husepānití, uaifí mo e fānaú—ko ha toki fāmili mohu tāpuaki ē te nau aʻusia! ʻE ʻi ai ʻa e vahaʻangatae vāofi mo māfana pea ʻatā ai ʻa e fetuʻutakí, ʻi he feinga ʻa e mēmipa taki taha ʻo e fāmilí ke fetokoniʻaki ke tauhi ʻa e ʻOtua ko Sihová. Ko ia ʻai ia ko ha tōʻonga fakafāmili ke ako fakataha ʻa e Tohitapú!—Teutalōnome 6:4-9; Sione 17:3.
NGĀUE LAVAMEʻA KI HE NGAAHI PALOPALEMA FAKAFĀMILÍ
24. Ko e hā ʻoku totonu ai ki he ongo meʻa malí ke na kātaki ʻi heʻena fehālaaki taki taha?
24 Naʻa mo e ngaahi fāmili ʻoku nau faʻa fiefiá, ʻe ʻi ai ʻa e ngaahi palopalema ʻi he taimi ʻe niʻihi. ʻOku hoko eni koeʻuhi ʻoku taʻehaohaoa ʻa kitautolu kotoa pea fai mo e ngaahi meʻa ʻoku hala. ʻOku pehē ʻe he Tohitapú: “He ʻoku lahi ʻa e meʻa ʻoku tau humu ai kotoa pe.” (Sēmisi 3:2) Ko ia ʻoku ʻikai totonu ki he ongo meʻa malí ke na kouna ʻa e haohaoá meiate kinaua taki taha. Ka ʻoku totonu ke na kātaki ʻi heʻena fehālaaki taki taha. Ko ia ai, ʻoku ʻikai totonu ki he ongo meʻa malí ke na ʻamanekina ha nofo mali fiefia haohaoa, koeʻuhi ʻoku ʻikai malava ke aʻusia eni ia ʻe he kakai taʻehaohaoá.
25. ʻOku totonu ke fēfē ʻa hono fakaleleiʻi ʻi he ʻofá ʻa e ngaahi taʻefefiemālieʻaki ʻi he nofo malí?
25 Ko hono moʻoní, ʻoku totonu ke feinga ʻe ha husepāniti mo ha uaifi ke fakaʻehiʻehi mei he ngaahi meʻa ʻoku fakaʻitaʻi ai ʻe he tokotaha ko ē ʻa ē. Ka neongo pe ko e hā hono lahi ʻo ʻena feingá, ʻi he taimi ʻe niʻihi te na fai ha meʻa ʻo mamahi ai ē ʻi he tokotaha ko ē. Ko ia, ʻoku totonu ke fēfē ʻa hono fakaleleiʻi ʻo e ngaahi taʻefefiemālieʻakí? ʻOku pehē ʻe he akonaki ʻa e Tohitapú: “Ko e ʻofa ʻoku ne ʻufiʻufi ha fufuʻunga angahala.” (1 Pita 4:8) Ko hono ʻuhingá, ko e hoa mali ʻokú ne fakahāhā ʻa e ʻofá heʻikai te ne toe ʻohake ʻa e ngaahi faihala kuo fai ʻe hono hoá. Ko hono moʻoní, ʻe pehē ʻe ʻofa, ‘ʻIo, naʻá ke fai ha faihala. Ka ʻoku ou fai pehē mo au ʻi ha taimi. Ko ia te u fakangaloʻi hoʻo faihalá, pea te ke fai pehē kiate au.’—Palōvepi 10:12; 19:11.
26. ʻI he malanga hake ha ngaahi palopalema, ko e hā ʻe tokoni ki hono fakaleleiʻi ʻo e meʻa ko iá?
26 ʻI he loto-lelei ʻa e ongo meʻa malí ke tala ko e moʻoni naʻá na faihalá pea mo feinga ke fakatonutonu iá, ʻoku malava ke kalofi ai ʻa e ngaahi fakakikihi mo e loto-mamahi lahi. ʻOku totonu ko ʻena taumuʻá ia ke fakaleleiʻi ʻa e ngaahi palopalemá, kae ʻikai ko e ikuna ʻi ha ngaahi fakakikihi. Naʻa mo e taimi kuo faihala ai ho hoá, ʻai ke faingofua ange ke fakaleleiʻi ʻa e palopalemá ʻaki hono fakahā ʻa e anga-ʻofá. Kapau ko koe ʻoku halá, kole fakamolemole anga-fakatōkilalo. ʻOua te ke toloi ia; fakaleleiʻi ʻa e palopalemá ʻo ʻoua ʻe toe tatali. “ʻOua ʻe tuku ke to ʻa e laʻa ʻoku mou kei mamahi.”—ʻEfesō 4:26.
27. Ko e muimui ki he akonaki faka-Tohitapu fē ʻe tokoni ki he ongo meʻa malí ke fakaleleiʻi ʻena ngaahi palopalemá?
27 Tautefito ʻo kapau ko ha tokotaha mali koe, ʻoku fiemaʻu ke ke muimui ki he tuʻutuʻuni ke “ʻoua naʻa taki taha tokanga ki heʻene meʻa aʻana pe, ka ki he meʻa ʻa e kakai kehe foki.” (Filipai 2:4) ʻOku fiemaʻu ke ke talangofua ki he fekau ʻa e Tohitapu: “Mou ʻai ʻa e fatu ʻoku langa ʻi he fai meesi mo e angaʻofa mo e fakaʻakiʻakimui mo e angakataki mo e angamokomoko; pea ka ai ha taha ʻoku ne koviʻia ʻi ha taha ʻi ha meʻa, ke mou fekatakiʻaki pe mo fefakamolemoleʻaki; ʻio, ʻo hange foki ne fakamolemole kimoutolu ʻe he ʻEiki, ke pehe pe mo kimoutolu. Pea mou kofutuʻaʻaki ʻa e ngaahi meʻa ko ia katoa ʻa e ʻofa, ʻa ia ko e fakamaʻu ʻo e haohaoa.”—Kolose 3:12-14.
28. (a) ʻOku hoko ʻa e vete malí ko ha founga ke fakaleleiʻi ai ʻa e ngaahi palopalema he nofo malí? (e) Ko e hā ʻoku lau ʻe he Tohitapú ko e ʻuhinga pē ia ʻe taha ki he vete malí pea ʻatā ai ha taha ke toe mali?
28 ʻOku ʻikai fakaʻatā ʻe he ngaahi ongo meʻa mali tokolahi he ʻahó ni ʻa e akonaki mei he Folofola ʻa e ʻOtuá ke ne tokoniʻi kinautolu ke fakaleleiʻi ʻenau ngaahi palopalemá, pea ʻoku nau fakakaukau ki ha vete mali. ʻOku hōifua ʻa e ʻOtuá ki he vete malí ko ha founga ia ke fakaleleiʻi ai ʻa e ngaahi palopalemá? ʻIkai, ʻoku ʻikai te ne hōifua ki ai. (Malakai 2:15, 16) Naʻá ne taumuʻa ko e nofo malí ko ha fokotuʻutuʻu ke aʻu ki he maté. (Loma 7:2) Ko e ʻuhinga pē ʻe taha ʻoku fakaʻatā ai ʻe he Tohitapú ke fai ha vete mali ke ʻatā ai ha tokotaha ke toe malí, ko e feʻauaki (lea faka-Kalisi, porneia, ko ha fehokotaki fakasino taʻetaau maʻataʻatā). Kapau ʻoku fai ha feʻauaki, ʻoku malava leva ke fili ʻa e tokotaha taʻehalaiá pe ʻe fai ha vete mali pe ʻikai.—Mātiu 5:32.
29. (a) Kapau ʻoku ʻikai kau fakataha ho hoa malí mo koe ʻi he lotu faka-Kalisitiané, ko e hā ʻoku totonu ke ke faí? (e) Ko e hā ha ola ʻe malava ke hoko?
29 Kae fēfē ʻo kapau kuo fakafisi ʻa ho hoa malí ke ako ʻa e Folofola ʻa e ʻOtuá mo koe, pe ko ʻene fakafepakiʻi ʻe ia ʻa hoʻo ngāue faka-Kalisitiané? ʻOku kei fakalototoʻaʻi koe ʻe he Tohitapú ke ke nofo mo ho hoá pea ʻoua ʻe fakakaukau ko e māvaé ko e founga faingofua ia ke hola ai mei ho ngaahi palopalemá. Fai ʻe koe ʻa e meʻa te ke malava fakafoʻituitui ke fakaleleiʻi ai ʻa e tuʻunga ʻi ho ʻapí ʻaki hoʻo ngāueʻaki ʻa e meʻa ʻoku tala mai ʻe he Tohitapú ʻo fekauʻaki mo ho ʻulungaanga pē ʻoʻoú. ʻI he faai mai ʻa e taimí, te ke maʻu mai nai ho hoá koeʻuhi ko ho ʻulungaanga faka-Kalisitiané. (1 Kolinitō 7:10-16; 1 Pita 3:1, 2) Pea ko ha toki tāpuaki lahi ē te ke maʻu ʻo kapau ʻe fakapaleʻi ʻi he foungá ni ʻa hoʻo kātaki ʻofá!
30. Ko e hā ʻoku mātuʻaki mahuʻinga ai ke fokotuʻu ʻe he ngaahi mātuʻá ha faʻifaʻitakiʻanga lelei ki heʻenau fānaú?
30 ʻOku lahi ʻa e ngaahi palopalema fakafāmili he ʻahó ni ʻo fekauʻaki mo e fānaú. Ko e hā ʻoku malava ke faí ʻo kapau ko e meʻa eni ʻoku hoko ʻi ho fāmilí? Ko e ʻuluaki meʻá, ʻi ho tuʻunga ko e mātuʻá, ʻoku fiemaʻu ke ke fokotuʻu ha faʻifaʻitakiʻanga lelei. ʻOku peheé koeʻuhi ʻoku hehema ange ʻa e fānaú ke muimui ʻi he meʻa ʻokú ke faí ʻi he meʻa ʻokú ke leaʻakí. Pea ʻi he taimi ʻoku kehe ai ʻa hoʻo ngaahi tōʻongá mei hoʻo ngaahi leá, ʻoku vave hono fakatokangaʻi ia ʻe he fānaú. Ko ia, kapau ʻokú ke fiemaʻu ke moʻui anga faka-Kalisitiane mo lelei ʻa hoʻo fānaú, kuo pau ke ke fokotuʻu ʻe koe tonu ʻa e faʻifaʻitakiʻangá.—Loma 2:21, 22.
31. (a) Ko e hā ʻa e ʻuhinga mahuʻinga lahi ange ʻoku fiemaʻu ai ki he fānaú ke nau talangofua ki he akonaki ʻa ʻenau ngaahi mātuʻá? (e) ʻE anga-fēfē nai haʻo fakahāhā ki hoʻo fānaú ʻa e poto ʻi he talangofua ki he lao ʻa e ʻOtuá ʻa ia ʻokú ne tapui ai ʻa e feʻauakí?
31 ʻIkai ngata ai, ʻoku fiemaʻu ke ke fakaʻuhinga mo hoʻo fānaú. ʻOku ʻikai feʻunga pē ke ke tala ki he kau talavoú: ‘ʻOku ʻikai te u saiʻia ke ke fai feʻauaki, koeʻuhi he ʻoku hala ia.’ ʻOku fiemaʻu ke fakahāhā kiate kinautolu ko honau Tokotaha-fakatupú, ko e ʻOtua ko Sihová, ʻokú ne folofola mai ʻoku hala ʻa e ngaahi meʻa ʻo hangē ko e feʻauakí. (ʻEfesō 5:3-5; 1 Tesalonaika 4:3-7) Ka naʻa mo e meʻá ni ʻoku ʻikai feʻunga pē ia. ʻOku toe fiemaʻu ke tokoniʻi ʻa e fānaú ke nau ʻilo ʻa e ʻuhinga ʻoku totonu ai ke nau talangofua ki he ngaahi lao ʻa e ʻOtuá, pea mo e founga ʻe ʻaonga ai ʻa e meʻá ni kiate kinautolú. Ko e fakatātā, ʻe lava ke ke fakahanga ʻa e tokanga ʻa hoʻo fānaú ki he founga fakaofo ʻa hono faʻu ʻo e pēpeé ʻi hono fakatahaʻi ʻa e huhuʻa fakatupu fanau ʻo ha tangata mo e fua ʻo ha fefine, pea toki ʻeke ki ai: ‘ʻIkai ʻokú ke fakakaukau ʻoku ʻilo lelei taha ʻa e Tokotaha naʻá ne ʻai ke malava ʻa e mana ko eni ko e fāʻelé, ki he founga ʻoku totonu ke ngāueʻaki ai ʻe he faʻahinga ʻo e tangatá ʻa honau mafai fakafanau naʻe ʻomai ʻe he ʻOtuá?’ (Sāme 139:13-17) Pe te ke ʻeke nai: ‘ʻOkú ke pehē nai ʻe fokotuʻu ʻe hotau Tokotaha-fakatupu Molumalú ha lao ke ne toʻo atu meiate kitautolu ʻa e fiefia ʻi he moʻuí? Ko hono moʻoní, ʻikai te tau fiefia ange ʻo kapau te tau talangofua ki heʻene ngaahi laó?’
32. (a) ʻOku totonu ke fēfē ʻa hoʻo fakakaukaú ʻo kapau ʻoku ʻikai tatau ʻa e ngaahi fakakaukau ʻa hoʻo fānaú mo e ngaahi fakakaukau ʻa e ʻOtuá? (e) ʻOku malava fēfē ke tokoniʻi hoʻo fānaú ke mahino ʻa e fakapotopoto ʻo e meʻa ʻoku tala mai ʻe he Tohitapú?
32 ʻOku malava ʻe he ngaahi fehuʻi pehe ní ke kamata ai ʻa e fakakaukau fakaʻuhinga ʻa hoʻo fānaú ki he lao ʻa e ʻOtuá ʻo fekauʻaki mo hono ngāueʻaki ʻa e ngaahi ʻōkani fakafanaú. Tali lelei ʻene ngaahi fakakaukaú. Kapau ʻoku ʻikai te ke saiʻia ʻi he ngaahi fakakaukau ko iá, ʻoua ʻe ʻita. Feinga ke mahino kuo ʻauhia mamaʻo ʻa e toʻumeʻa ʻo hoʻo fānaú mei he ngaahi akonaki māʻoniʻoni ʻi he Tohitapú, pea ke feinga leva ke fakahā kiate ia ʻa e ʻuhinga ʻoku taʻefakapotopoto ai ʻa e ngaahi tōʻonga taʻetaau ʻa hono toʻumeʻá. Mahalo pē te ke malava ʻo fakahanga ʻa e tokanga ʻa hoʻo fānaú ki he ngaahi faʻifaʻitakiʻanga pau ʻa ia kuo iku ai ʻa e fehokotaki fakasino taʻetaaú ki he ngaahi fāʻele tuʻutāmaki, ngaahi mahaki māʻiafia pe ngaahi faingataʻa kehé. ʻI he foungá ni ʻoku tokoniʻi ai ke mahino kiate ia ʻa e faituʻunga mo e totonu ʻo e meʻa ʻoku tala mai ʻe he Tohitapú.
33. Ko e hā ʻoku malava ai ʻe he ʻamanaki makatuʻunga faka-Tohitapu ʻo fekauʻaki mo e moʻui taʻengata he palataisi ʻi he māmaní, ke tokoniʻi kitautolu ke ʻai ke lavameʻa ʻa e moʻui fakafāmilí?
33 ʻOku tautefito ʻa e tokoni kiate kitautolu ʻa e ʻamanaki makatuʻunga faka-Tohitapu ʻo fekauʻaki mo e moʻui taʻengata he Palataisi ʻi he māmaní, ke ʻai ke lavameʻa ʻa e moʻui fakafāmilí. Ko e hā hono ʻuhingá? Koeʻuhi kapau ʻoku tau mātuʻaki saiʻia ke moʻui ʻi he fokotuʻutuʻu foʻou ʻa e ʻOtuá, te tau feinga mālohi he taimí ni ke moʻui ʻo hangē ko ia ʻoku tau ʻamanaki ke moʻui aí. ʻOku ʻuhinga ení te tau muimui ofi ki he ngaahi fakahinohino mo e tataki ʻa e ʻOtua ko Sihová. Ko hono olá, ʻe fakakakato ʻe he ʻOtuá ʻa ʻetau fiefia he taimi ní ʻaki ʻa hono aʻusia ʻa e moʻui taʻengatá mo e fiefia lahi ʻi he kahaʻu taʻengata ʻoku hanganaki maí.—Palōvepi 3:11-18.