For things like this, make wuna kill the different-different part of wuna body: all sex matter wey God hate, to de do wetin no clean, to de hungry to sleep with who no be your husband or wife.—Col. 3:5.
Some things fit make-am hard us to follow wetin Jehovah talk about sex matter. E good make we know this things. For example, two people fit de go out together because they get-am for mind to marry. But as they start, e go good if they tell each other things wey they go do or wey they no go do for matter like, to touch each other, to kiss, and wetin they go do make only two of them no dey for some kind place. (Prov. 22:3) Person fit still fall for sex matter if e travel leave house because of work, or when man and woman de work together for work place. (Prov. 2:10-12, 16) We fit still fall for this problem when we no dey happy or when we dey alone. We fit de find person wey e go show us say e like us. And we fit no even care about who the person be as long as e get our time. If this kind thing ever happen to you, pray to Jehovah and go meet brothers and sisters to help you.—Ps. 34:18; Prov. 13:20. w17.11 26 ¶4-5
Make wuna choose different-different city wey person fit run go if e kill person by mistake.—Josh. 20:2.
For Jehovah, na serious matter if person kill another person. If somebody first plan-am and kill person wey e no do anything, e go use e own life pay. So who “get the right” to take e life? Na the family member of the dead person. This family member go be man wey e near the dead person. (Num. 35:19) If they no quick kill the person, the land no go clean as Jehovah want. Jehovah tell them say: ‘Make wuna no spoil the land wey wuna de stay, because blood of person wey they kill de spoil the land.’ (Num. 35:33, 34) Wetin go happen if somebody kill another person by mistake? Even though na mistake, the blood of the person wey e kill go still dey e head. (Gen. 9:5) But they fit still forgive the person. They build six city wey person fit run go if e kill somebody by mistake. If e run go any of the city, the person wey get right to take e life, no go fit. Nothing go do the killer if e stay for the city until the high priest die.—Num. 35:15, 28. w17.11 9 ¶3-5
Person wey e get sense no de take insult as anything.—Prov. 12:16.
One sister for Australia say: “My father-in-law no like Jehovah Witness at all. E de vex for us sometimes. So before we go call to find out how e dey, we de pray make Jehovah help us make we no vex back. Since plenty talk fit make us start to argue about Bible, we de plan how long we go talk for phone.” When your family people get quarrel with you, your mind fit de judge you. Why? Because you love them and you de try to do wetin go make them happy, and still try hold Jehovah tight. But make your love for Jehovah strong pass. This kind mind go make them know say you no de take Jehovah play at all. The truth be say, you no fit force them to serve Jehovah. But you fit de do things wey go make them see say e good to follow Jehovah. Na we choose to serve Jehovah. So na them go still choose by theirself. Na the same chance Jehovah give all of us.—Isa. 48:17, 18. w17.10 15-16 ¶15-16