To fit dey sure say wetin we believe na true, make we compare wetin we believe with wetin Bible talk. For example, think about the young person wey no dey sure say Jehovah care about-am. E good make e just believe say Jehovah no care about-am? No, e need to study Bible to see how Jehovah de feel about-am, this one go show say e de “check everything well.” When we de read Bible, e just be like say Jehovah de talk to us. But to know wetin Jehovah de think about the matter wey de worry us, we need to do something when we de read. We need to check for Bible verse them or advice wey concern the topic wey dey our mind. We fit still use our books do research about the topic. (Prov. 2:​3-6) We need to pray to Jehovah and beg-am make e help us see the answer to our question. Then we fit look for Bible advice or information wey fit help for our situation. w24.10 25 ¶4-5

Jehovah no go bless anybody wey de work hard because e want make other people see-am as important person. (1 Cor. 10:​24, 33; 13:4) E get sometimes wey even Jesus disciples wey be im close friends want make Jesus give them work because them want dey important pass other people. Think about wetin James and John do. Them ask Jesus make e give them important position for im Kingdom. Jesus no praise James and John for wetin them do. Instead, Jesus correct im 12 apostles when e talk say: “Anybody wey want be big man among una, must be una servant, and anybody wey want be first among una must be slave for all of una.” (Mark 10:​35-37, 43, 44) Brothers wey de work hard for congregation because them want serve other people go be blessing for the congregation.—1 Thess. 2:8. w24.11 15-16 ¶7-8

When we de make decision, love go make us de think about wetin go benefit “another person” and no de overdo things. (1 Cor. 10:​23, 24, 32; 1 Tim. 2:9, 10) Then, we go fit make decision wey show say we love and care for other people. If you de make one important decision, think about wetin you need to do to make the decision work. This na wetin Jesus advice us to do. (Luke 14:28) So think about the time, the things wey you need, and the power wey you go use to make the decision work. Sometimes, you fit need to talk to your family members to know wetin each person for family go need to do to fit make the decision succeed. Why e dey important make you do like that? This one fit make you see say you need to adjust some things for your decision, or even change-am to another one wey go better pass. And when you listen to ideas from your family members, e go make them ready to work with you to make the decision succeed. w25.01 18-19 ¶14-15