Kodwa igunya lobuzali—“induku yokulaya”—kufanele lingeqisi.b (IzAga 22:15; 29:15) IBhayibheli leluleka abazali ngokuthi: “Ungabaluleki ngokweqile abantwana bakho, ngoba uyobaphuca isibindi.” (Kolose 3:21, Phillips) Liyavuma nokuthi ukushaya ngokuvamile akuyona indlela ephumelela kakhulu yokufundisa. IzAga 17:10 zithi: “Insolo ingena koqondileyo kunemivimbo eyikhulu koyisiwula.” Ngaphandle kwalokho, iBhayibheli litusa isiyalo sokuvimbela kungakaqali. KuDuteronomi 11:19 abazali bakhuthazwa ukuba basebenzise ngokunenzuzo izikhathi zokuphumula ukuze bagxilise izindinganiso zokuziphatha ezinganeni zabo.—Bheka noDuteronomi 6:6, 7.