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?Olsem Wanem Blong Gat Wan Hapi Famle?—Pat 1
Olgeta we oli jes mared, oli hop se glad we oli kasem i stap blong olwe. Mo hemia i posibol. Ol Kristin we oli mared longtaem finis mo oli traehad blong folem ol advaes blong Baebol, oli ekspiriensem samting ya.
1. ?Baebol i givim wanem advaes long ol hasban?
Jehova i jusum hasban blong i hed blong famle. (Ridim Efesas 5:23.) Mo hem i ekspektem hasban blong mekem ol desisen we bambae i givhan long famle. Baebol i talem long ol hasban se: “Yufala i mas gohed blong lavem waef blong yufala.” (Efesas 5:25) ?Hemia i minim wanem? Wan hasban we i gat lav, bambae i kaen long waef blong hem taem tufala i stap wetem ol narafala mo taem tufala nomo i stap. Mo bambae hem i traehad blong mekem se waef blong hem i stap sef mo i hapi oltaem. Mo tu, hem i mas givim ol samting we waef blong hem i nidim. (1 Timoti 5:8) Samting we i moa impoten se hem i mas halpem waef, blong i frengud wetem Jehova. (Matiu 4:4) Eksampol, hem i save prea mo ridim Baebol wetem waef blong hem. Taem wan hasban i lukaot gud long waef blong hem, bambae hem i gohed blong frengud wetem Jehova.—Ridim 1 Pita 3:7.
2. ?Baebol i givim wanem advaes long ol waef?
Baebol i talem se waef “i mas gat bigfala respek long hasban blong hem.” (Efesas 5:33) ?Bambae hem i mekem samting ya olsem wanem? Hem i save tingbaot ol gudfala fasin mo ol traehad we hasban i mekem blong lukaotgud long hem wetem ol pikinini. Mo tu, waef i save soem respek taem hem i sapotem ol desisen we hasban i mekem. Mo waef i mas toktok kaen long hem mo tokbaot ol gudfala samting we hasban i stap mekem, nating se hem i wosipim Jehova o nogat.
3. ?Olsem wanem wan kapol i save mekem mared blong tufala i strong?
Baebol i tokbaot wan mared kapol se: “Bambae tufala i kam wan bodi nomo.” (Matiu 19:5) Blong mekem olsem, tufala i mas blokem ol filing we i save seraotem tufala. Tufala i mekem olsem taem tufala i spenem taem tugeta, serem ol tingting tugeta mo soem ol filing long tufala. Oli no mas letem wan samting i kam impoten moa i bitim hasban o waef. Jehova nomo i save kam impoten moa long laef blong tufala. Mo tufala i mas lukaot se tufala i no fren tumas wetem wan narafala man o woman.
DIGIM MOA
Luk sam advaes long Baebol we oli save mekem mared blong yu i strong.
4. Hasban, lavem mo lukaot gud long waef blong yu
Baebol i talem se “ol hasban oli mas lavem waef blong olgeta olsem we oli lavem prapa bodi blong olgeta.” (Efesas 5:28, 29) ?Hemia i minim wanem? Plei VIDEO, mo tokbaot kwestin ya.
?Hasban i save mekem wanem blong soem se hem i lavem mo kea long waef blong hem?
Ridim Kolosi 3:12, mo tokbaot kwestin ya:
?Olsem wanem hasban i save soem ol fasin ya long mared blong hem?
5. Waef, lavem mo respektem hasban blong yu
Baebol i enkarejem waef blong respektem hasban blong hem, nating se hem i wosipim Jehova o nogat. Ridim 1 Pita 3:1, 2, mo tokbaot ol kwestin ya:
Sipos hasban blong yu i no bilif, i sua se yu wantem se hem i wosipim Jehova. ?Yu ting se i gud blong prij long hem oltaem o i moa gud blong soem ol gudfala fasin long hem? ?From wanem?
Hasban mo waef i save joen blong mekem ol gudfala desisen. Be samtaem, maet waef i no agri wetem hasban blong hem. Long taem olsem, waef i save toktok wetem respek mo long kwaet fasin blong talemaot tingting blong hem. Hem i mas save se Jehova i givim responsabiliti long hasban blong i mekem desisen blong givhan long famle. Mo tu, waef i mas traem bes blong hem blong sapotem desisen ya. Taem hem i mekem olsem, hem i givhan blong mekem evriwan long famle, i hapi. Ridim 1 Pita 3:3-5, mo tokbaot kwestin ya:
?Jehova i harem olsem wanem taem waef i soem respek long hasban?
6. Yu save winim ol problem long mared
I no gat wan mared we i stret gud olgeta. Taswe hasban mo waef i mas wok tugeta blong winim ol problem. Plei VIDEO, mo tokbaot ol kwestin ya.
Long video ya, ?wanem i soem se hasban mo waef i no moa fren gud olsem bifo?
?Tufala i mekem wanem blong mekem mared blong tufala i strong bakegen?
Ridim 1 Korin 10:24 mo Kolosi 3:13 mo askem sem kwestin we i stap, afta we yu ridim wanwan vas:
?Olsem wanem advaes ya bambae i givhan blong mekem mared i kam strong?
Baebol i talem se yumi mas ona long narafala. Yumi soem ona long wan man taem yumi kaen mo respektem hem. Ridim Rom 12:10, mo tokbaot ol kwestin ya:
?Hasban o waef i mas wet fastaem blong narawan i soem ona long hem? ?From wanem yu ansa olsem?
SAM MAN OLI SE: “Mitufala i no moa joen gud olsem bifo.”
?Bambae yu eksplenem olsem wanem se Baebol i save halpem tufala?
SAMARI
Hasban mo waef i save hapi taem tufala i lavlavem tufala, soem respek long tufala, mo folem ol advaes blong Baebol.
Tingtingbak
?Hasban i save mekem wanem blong gat wan hapi famle?
?Waef i save mekem wanem blong gat wan hapi famle?
Sipos yu mared, ?weswan advaes long Baebol i save halpem yu blong mekem mared blong yu i strong?
FAENEMAOT
Luk sam rod blong gat wan hapi famle.
Wajem video ya we i soem ol blesing we wan kapol i kasem, taem oli folem ol advaes blong God.
Faenemaot olsem wanem blong respektem hasban olsem hed blong famle.
Luk samting we i givhan long wan kapol blong winim ol problem long mared blong tufala.