“KOMA SITIFUNA, ABALE, KUTI MUKHALE OSADZIŴA ZA IWO AKUGONA; KUTI MUNGALIRE MONGANSO OTSALAWO, AMENE ALIBE CHIYEMBEKEZO.”—1 ATESALONIKA 4:13.

BAIBULO limati pali chiyembekezo kwa anthu amene anamwalira. Kuukitsa anthu kumene Yesu anachita komanso zinthu zimene anaphunzitsa, zimasonyeza nthaŵi imene akufa adzaukitsidwe. (Mateyu 22:23-33; Marko 5:35, 36, 41, 42; Luka 7:12-16) Kodi chiyembekezo chimenechi chiyenera kutikhudza bwanji? Mawu a mtumwi Paulo amene ali pamwambapo amasonyeza kuti chiyembekezo chimenechi chingatilimbitse mtima wokondedwa wathu akamwalira.

Ngati wokondedwa wanu anafa, n’zosakayikitsa kuti monga mmene zimakhalira wina akamwalira munavutika maganizo kwambiri. Anthu ena zimawatengera miyezi kapena zaka kuti aiŵale za imfayo. Theresa, yemwe mwamuna wake amene anakhala naye m’banja kwa zaka 42 anamwalira atangochitidwa kumene opaleshoni ya mtima, ananena kuti: “Zinali zosokoneza maganizo kwambiri! Poyamba ndinachita mantha kwambiri. Kenaka mtima wanga unayamba kundipweteka kwambiri. Ndinalira kwambiri.” Kodi kuteroko ndiye kuti mulibe chikhulupiriro cha lonjezo la Yehova la kuukitsa akufa? Kodi mawu a Paulo akutanthauza kuti kulira maliro n’kulakwa?

Zitsanzo za Kulira Maliro za M’Baibulo

Mayankho amafunso amenewo timawapeza pofufuza zitsanzo za kulira maliro zimene zili m’Baibulo. M’nkhani zambiri wina akamwalira m’banja panali nthaŵi yakulira. (Genesis 27:41; 50:7-10; Salmo 35:14) Nthaŵi zambiri anthu akamalira chonchi maganizo ankawapweteka kwambiri.

Komabe ngakhale kuti ife Akristu timalira chifukwa cha imfa, sitilira “monganso otsalawo, amene alibe chiyembekezo.” (1 Atesalonika 4:13) Sitidzivutitsa ndi kulira kochita kunyanyira chifukwa timadziŵa mmene anthu akufa alili. Timadziŵa kuti sakumva kuŵaŵa kapena kuvutika maganizo, koma kuti amangokhala ngati ali m’tulo tabwino tofa nato. (Mlaliki 9:5; Marko 5:39; Yohane 11:11-14) Timakhulupiriranso kwambiri kuti Yesu yemwe ali “kuuka ndi moyo,” adzakwaniritsa lonjezo lake la kuukitsa “onse ali m’manda.”—Yohane 5:28, 29; 11:24, 25.