¹¹ Amuna amene amaikidwa kukhala oyang’anira ayenera kukhala odziletsa pa zochita zawo komanso pochita zinthu ndi ena. Ayenera kukhala osachita zinthu mopitirira malire, adongosolo komanso odziletsa. Ayenera kudziletsa pa zinthu monga kudya, kumwa, zosangalatsa ndi zinthu zimene amakonda kuchita pa nthawi yopuma. Ayeneranso kudziletsa pa nkhani ya kumwa mowa n’cholinga choti asamatchuke ndi mbiri yoipa yoti amaledzera kapena kumwa mwauchidakwa. Munthu amene wasokonezeka maganizo ndi zakumwa zoledzeretsa amalephera kukhala wodziletsa ndipo sangathe kuyang’anira bwino mpingo.

¹³ Woyang’anira ayenera kukhala wololera. Afunika kukhala munthu wotha kugwira ntchito limodzi ndi akulu anzake mogwirizana m’bungwe la akulu. Ayeneranso kudziona moyenerera ndipo azipewa kulamulira ena. Monga munthu wololera, woyang’anira sayenera kuona kuti maganizo ake ndi ofunika kwambiri kuposa a akulu anzake chifukwa akulu ena angakhale ndi makhalidwe komanso luso limene iyeyo alibe. Mkulu amasonyeza kuti ndi wololera akamagwiritsa ntchito Malemba posankha zochita komanso akamayesetsa kutsanzira chitsanzo cha Yesu Khristu. (Afil. 2:2-8) Mkulu sayenera kukhala wokonda kukangana ndi ena kapena wachiwawa koma azilemekeza ena ndi kuwaona kukhala omuposa. Sayenera kukhala womva zake zokha, wongofuna kuti nthawi zonse anthu azitsatira maganizo ake. Komanso ayenera kukhala wamtendere pochita zinthu ndi ena, osati wa mtima wapachala.