Baebele ya Reng
Totatota Botlhogo mo Lenyalong bo Kaya Eng?
MO DINAGENG di le dintsi ka tlwaelo meletlo ya manyalo e akaretsa go dira maikano a mo go one monyadiwa a solofetsang monna wa gagwe go mo tlotla. Le fa go ntse jalo, basadi ba le bantsi ga ba rate kgang eno ya botlhogo ba monna mo lenyalong. Akanya ka se Baebele e se rutang ka kgang eno. O tla lemoga gore se Baebele e se rutang se a utlwala e bile se a dira.
Botlhogo Jaaka bo Tlhalosiwa ke Modimo
Tsela e Baebele e tlhalosang botlhogo ka yona e bonwa mo go Baefeso 5:22-24: “A basadi ba ikobele banna ba bone jaaka ba ikobela Morena, ka gonne monna ke tlhogo ya mosadi wa gagwe jaaka Keresete le ene a le tlhogo ya phuthego. . . Tota e bile, jaaka phuthego e ikobela Keresete, jalo a basadi le bone ba nne jalo mo banneng ba bone mo go sengwe le sengwe.” Jaaka “tlhogo ya mosadi wa gagwe,” monna o tshwanetse go etelela lelapa pele, mme mosadi ene o tshwanetse go latela ketelelopele ya gagwe e bile a tlotla botlhogo jwa gagwe.—Baefeso 5:33.
Botlhogo jwa monna bo lekanyediwa ke go ikobela ga gagwe Modimo le Keresete. Ga a na maatla a go laela mosadi wa gagwe gore a tlole molao wa Modimo kana gore a tlhokomologe segakolodi sa gagwe se se thapisitsweng ke Baebele. Le fa go ntse jalo, mo melelwaneng eno, Modimo o mo neile boikarabelo jwa go direla lelapa la gagwe ditshwetso tse di botlhokwa.—Baroma 7:2; 1 Bakorintha 11:3.
Baebele e laola monna gore e nne tlhogo e e seng bogagapa, a dire gore ditlhoko tsa mosadi wa gagwe di tle pele ga tsa gagwe. Baefeso 5:25 ya re: “Banna, tswelelang lo rate basadi ba lona, fela jaaka Keresete le ene a ne a rata phuthego a ba a ineela ka ntlha ya yone.” Monna yo o latelang sekao sa ga Keresete o tila go nna tlhogo e e nang le mowa wa boithati.
Mo godimo ga moo, Baebele e laela monna go nna le mosadi wa gagwe “go ya ka kitso.” (1 Petere 3:7) Seno ga se reye kitso fela ya go farologana ga maatla le maikutlo ga banna le basadi. O tshwanetse go tlhaloganya ditlhoko tsa mosadi wa gagwe.
“Ke Molekane wa Gago”
A go nna boikobo ga mosadi go raya gore a nne fela a sa dire sepe? Akanya ka Sara, yo mo Baebeleng go buiwang ka ene gore ke motlhomasekao yo mogolo wa go ikobela monna wa gagwe, Aborahame. (1 Petere 3:5, 6) O ne a mo ikobela mo dilong tse dikgolo le tse dinnye, go simolola ka go tlogela legae la gagwe le le manobonobo a ya go tshela botshelo jwa go nna mo ditenteng, go ya go dikgang tse dinnye tse di jaaka go baakanya dijo ka bonakonako. (Genesise 12:5-9; 18:6) Mme fa go nna le kgang e e masisi gone, o ne a nna a ntsha maikutlo a a farologaneng le a ga Aborahame. Seno se ne sa direga ka nako ya fa a ne a batla gore a kobe nyatsi ya gagwe, Hagare, le morwa wa gagwe wa motsalwapele, Ishemaele, mo ntlong ya bone. Mo boemong jwa go kgala Sara, Modimo o ne a bolelela Aborahame gore a ‘reetse lentswe la gagwe.’ Kgabagare, Sara o ne a tswelela a ikobela Aborahame ka go mo leta gore a tseye kgato ka nako ya gagwe, go na le go leka go koba Hagare le Ishemaele ka boene.—Genesise 21:8-14.
Sekao sa ga Sara se bontsha gore go na le go re mosadi e nne madumelagotlhe, o tshwanetse go nna “molekane” wa monna wa gagwe a tseelwe kwa godimo. (Malaki 2:14) Jaaka molekane wa gagwe, o nna le tshwaelo ka ditshwetso tse di dirwang mo lelapeng mme o newa taolo e e rileng mo lelapeng, gantsi a laola ditiro dingwe tse di dirwang mo lelapeng go akaretsa le dikgang tsa madi. Gone, jaaka tlhogo ya lelapa, monna o na le boikarabelo jwa go dira ditshwetso tsa bofelo.—Diane 31:10-31; 1 Timotheo 5:14.
Go Bontsha go Tlotla Mosimolodi
Jehofa Modimo o tlhodile monna le mosadi, mme a tlhola lenyalo e le sebofo se se boitshepo mo gare ga bone. (Genesise 2:18-24) Gape o ne a abela monna le mosadi ditiro tse di ba lebaneng tse di neng di tla dira gore ba nne ba itumetse.—Duteronome 24:5; Diane 5:18.
Jaaka Mosimolodi wa lenyalo, Jehofa o na le tshwanelo le bokgoni jwa go baya ditekanyetso tsa lenyalo. Balekane ba lenyalo ba ba dirang ditiro tse ba di abetsweng mme ba latela thulaganyo ya Jehofa ya lenyalo, e seng fela ka ntlha ya go utlwala ga yone mme gape ka ntlha ya gore ba tlotla bolaodi jwa ga Jehofa, ba itemogela kamogelo le tshegetso ya gagwe.
A O KILE WA IPOTSA JAANA
◼ Ke mang yo o tlhomileng sekao se se molemo sa botlhogo?—Baefeso 5:25.
◼ A Modimo o lekanyetsa taolo ya monna?— 1 Bakorintha 11:3.
◼ Boikaelelo jwa lenyalo le thulaganyo ya botlhogo ke bofe?—Diane 5:18.
[Setshwantsho mo go tsebe 28]
Fa botlhogo bo dirisiwa go latelwa sekao sa ga Jesu go ka felela ka boitumelo le kgotsofalo mo balekaneng boobabedi