Owesifazane onokuqonda othiwa uBetty usebenzisa elinye isu. Uthi: “Ngiqaphe kakhulu ngokujwayelana nengisebenza nabo ngoba ukuziphatha kwabo akufani nokwami.” (1 Korinte 15:33) Lokhu akusho ukuba unkom’ idla yodwa noma ukuzonda osebenza nabo. Kodwa lapho bephikelela ekuxoxeni izindaba ezingajabulisi kumKristu, ungangabazi ukubashiya. (Efesu 5:3, 4) Ukulalela kwakho inkulumo enjalo yokuziphatha okubi kunganika abesilisa emsebenzini umbono wokuthi uyakwamukela ukweshela kwabo.

Okokugcina, owesifazane onokuqonda ugwema ukunqotshwa yizimo. Isimemo sokuphuza isiphuzo esidakayo noma sokusala emsebenzini lapho sekuphunyiwe ngaphandle kwesizathu singaba ugibe. (Qhathanisa neyesi-2 Samuweli 13:1-4) Isaga esihlakaniphile sithi: “Oqondileyo uyabona ububi, acashe.”—IzAga 22:3.